SAY NO TO IDIOT BOX!

                     Tomorrow when I was making my assignment, the little sister of mine was listening the song “Sheila ki jawani” when she sang the line ”I'm just sexy for you; Main tere haath na aani” she asked me “appi sexy ka matlab kia hota hai?” well, I told her not to ask again from anybody, it means something bad and u know it after u become 18. And she understands it! But I thought again that young generation is so curious to know, several question raise into the mind of every child just because of idiot box and our media.

          The television was invented by John Logie Baird as a means of mass entertainment and communication. It was a wonderful gift of science to man kind but now a days it is too much entertaining us. Over the years it has been exploded, and today, the only things that are depicted on television are violence, sex and pop music, which are quite alien to our culture and tastes. Youngsters are very sensitive to such things as they are at an impressionable age. What ever they watch gets imprinted on their minds easily. The worse thing is that television watching of youngsters is not being monitored. This has led to disastrous consequences. I list below a few of the bad effects of television on the young:

·        Youngsters force their parents to buy them things that are shown in advertisements.

·        Youngsters damage their eyesight by watching television for long hour.

·        They lose interest in studies and their grades go down.

·        Some even go to the extent of imitating the stunts scenes performed by action heroes in movies,

          Sometimes back, there was a shocking incident of a boy who jumped from his 5^th floor flat thinking that his so-called hero would come to rescue him. When I saw that new on TV, I would love the innocence of the boy and feel shame for our media, what artificiality they are delivering in us.

          Apart from its entertainment, there is another important reason why youngsters watch television. It is because they fear being left out. They want to be in-touch with the in-things. Like the latest movies and fashion trends and the going-ons in the daily soaps because these are the things discussed at schools more than the studies.

          Some of you may argue that cartoons are a healthy means of entertainment for the very young. But think again. Only five percent of cartoons have a moral content. The rest depict only fashion, violence, romance and flirting. E.g.: Johnny Bravo, Aladdin, poppy.

          What I want to say is that the idiot box is harmful for children as well as youngsters & we youngsters need to keep away from it. Also elders should monitor which type of content children are seeing on the TV.

ItX fUn To Be YoUnG!!!

zindagi ka asal maza to mje abi hasil hua he.jb se mene khul k sans lena shuru kardi he,meri sehalian jb mje milin tb mene zindagi ko jee kar dekha.insan me ek samaj ajati he jb usy achy bury ki tameez ajati he to tab se hi wo apne hadood me reh kr maze karskta he.jb mene women university me dakhla lia to mje laga k yahan par sirf parhai k elawa koi or sar garmian ni hongi.
shuru me jo mene socha tha wo such hony laga tha lakin  jb mera friend circle bana to mje zindagi ka asal maza hasil hua.
doston k sath guzary har pal hr kisam ki tafree sb yad rehti he,hr picnic hr mela ,student week , welcom party wagaira is k elawa teachers se masti class bunk kar k cafe me jana application sign karwa h uni se bahr nikal jana teachers ko manana unko patana.
Ye char sal to meri zindagi k sb se haseen lamhe hn,q k is k bad to sab apni apni zindagi me masroof hojainge kisi ko kisi ki koi khabar ni rehegi koi shadi k bad masroof to koi professional life me bz hojaiga.
Ye bachlor life to meri bht khas he or ye jumla to meri life he
ye pal mje yaad ainge..........wo kal mje yaad ainge
yeeah!!! itx fun to b young..

Shadi k lyea lrki chayea ya society ki ramp pr chlwanay k lyea ik model:

Kch hi din pehlay meri aunty ki beti ka rishta the hua or shadi ki tayariyan shru hogai.rishtay k kch din bd lrkay walon ko dawat pr bulaya aunty ne.us mai dinner k wakt meri aunty ki beti k hath se spoon gir gaya ghalti se jis pr lrkay walon ne rishta tor dia k isey khanay ki tameez nai sab mehmano k samne chamch gira dia.

Kia kbi ap soch saktay hain k ksi lrki ka rishta sirif is choti si bat pr b khatam hosta hai?nai na? mgr ab ap isi trhan ki choti or giri v baten expect Karen ku k ajkal shadi k lyeaik khobserat lrki nai chayea hoti ajkal tu ik model chayea hoti jo khobsurat b ho,society mai achi trhan behave b krsakay,khana b acha banana ata ho or baki sari khobian b hon blkul perfect honi chayea na ik percent km na ik percent ziada.apney betay ko kbi nai dekhtay k wo kesa hai bus lrki hoor pari dhondtay hain k jb stage pr dulhan bn kr bethay tu sun tareef karay akr k apki bahu tub ht hi haseen hai or bd mai jb woi haseen pari ghr ko jang ka maidan bnaday tu phir uski buraiyan kr kr k thuktay nai susral walay.

Arey ik lrki b insan hai ye ku nai sochtay.agr kch positive points hongay tu negative b hongay lazmi ku k wo insane hai or agr ksi b insane mai buraiyan nah on tu wo insane nai farishta ho..

Gone were the days...



Hide and seek, teacher teacher, ghar ghar, office office, cooking cooking, baraf paani, ludo, doctor doctor etc etc. I am sure nobody of you is unfamiliar with these games we used to play in childhood. My mind always flood with memories whenever I see children playing and living carefree life. I can’t forget a single thing of my childhood. What a beautiful time that was; no worries of life, no worries of money or anything. We just had our own fantasy world where only happiness were existing, no concerns what was going around and used to be busy in our own world, never knew the value of money and we’d choose a candy instead of thousands of rupees. We didn’t even know what does life mean.

I was not very stubborn child but still I remember a lot of things which make me smile. Daily at 5 o’clock in evening, I used to go to my friend without skipping a single day. Birthday parties, Eid, Independence Day etc., I don’t remember if I ever missed even a single event together. Every month we used to arrange won dish party and asked our mother to cook and I don’t remember if she ever refused to do. We used to play exam exam and made papers with silly questions, even once we arranged a picnic at home. We blew the bath tub on the roof and put on sunglasses and umbrellas and had snacks and samosas. That was the most beautiful part of my childhood.

But as my mind comes back to the present, I wonder how materialistic and artificial life has become. When we were children, we had no time to cry. There were just beautiful smiles and laughs. Even the silliest things used to make us laugh, but now we need to search the reasons to smiles. Our smiles have been imitated. We cannot even judge others real and artificial smiles. I wish I could turn back the clock. I miss every minute of it immensely. If I ever get the chance to ask my wish, I would definitely ask for my childhood.

PASHTAWAY SE BEHTR EHTIYATH HAI:

Meri ami mujhay humesha kehti hain ye bat k pashtaway se behtr ehtiyath hoti hai.ye jo word kash hota hai ye hamaray lyea bht tkleef ka baiss hota hai ku k jis b chez k lyea hum ye kash ka word istamaal krtay hain us chez ko hum apni zndagi main lana chahtay hain ya phir afsos k tor pr kehtay hain k ksh aisa na hota.

Jo wakt ik bar hath se nikl jata hai wok bi lout kr wapis nai ata.phir hum jitni b koshish krlen hum us tym ko dobara nai lasktay.insan apni zndagi main hazaron ghaltiyan krta hai or hr dafa usey ehsas jb hi hota haijb bht dair hochuki hoti hai.iski ik bht hi aam si missal wo nawjawan lrkay hain jo bike or gariyon ko chalatay huay ye bhool jatay hain k wo b ik insane hain unse b galti hoskti hai chahay wo kitnay hi mahir kun a hoon.isey sochay bagair wo speed ka b dehan nai rakhtay or sath sath kurtb b dekha rahay hotay hain k dekho humay bike riding or car driving pr itni maharth hasil haik hum jesay chahain usey control krsktay hain,or jb wo apna control khodetay hain ksi b wja se tu bht se apni jan se hath dho bethtay hain or aksr apne sath bethay logon or road pr mojod logon ki b or phr unko or unkay ghr walon ko zndagi bhr ka pashtawa rehta hai.

Hum din main tkrebn roz hi ik na ik accident k waqiyat suntay rehtay hain magr ik kan se suntay hain afsos krtay hain or dosray hi lmhay bhol b jatay hain.meri ye sb se iltija hai kis chez ko samjhen or apne ghr walon ko b samjhain ku k pashtaway se  behtr ehtiyath hai..

Respected Brothers...



I am very fond of reading queries in magazines and newspapers. They let me know about the problems, circumstances and thinking of the people. Some are about friends, some of them are about education and most of them are related to family problems. I read a query some days before which compel me to write on this, the problem of most of the girls. I don’t know what I should call it whether “gender discrimination” or “shamelessness”.

Our “respected” brothers have every authority to anything anywhere no matter respectful or disrespectful. I must use here the word “respected” because they give their utmost respect to their sisters. They give security they deserve i.e. never want us to go outside, never let us do what we want to, never ever tolerate us talking to some other guy, very anxious about our pardah and do their level best to keep us protected and isolated. And when they come to know that their sister is in contact with a guy, they start to oppose it tooth and nail because their honor has been extremely disgraced. And from then on, every restriction they order even it is a matter of doing something very legal. Even when it comes to their academy and education of their interest, they speak volumes in this matter. In short, they have full right to poke their nose wherever they want.

On the other hand, the same “respected” brother (who had been trying to be very pious) have right to talk and give their precious time to somebody else’ sisters (their gfs). They meet often with their girlfriends, want to spend time together and hate the brother of their gfs because he is as “respected” as he himself. And try to be pretending an 'angel'.

In simple words, a boy himself talks whole night with some girl (with someone’s sister, I must remind), but his blood is up when he sees his own sister is doing the same. A boy can have more than one gf but never ever ready to hear if his sister has a sincere one. A boy can very happily give expensive gifts to his gf but it is a big trouble when his sister accepts the same from some guy. A boy is very active in inquiring his sister’s cell phone but they turned violent is his sister ever try to inquire his one and try to show his mirror.

For everything sister does is extremely sinful and disgraceful although he himself does the same. No matter what he himself does thousand times over but when it comes to sisters, their mouth is always two steps ahead of their mind. By doing this they try to be the most pious men in the world. According to their mentality, their duty is just limited to keep their eyes fix on this matter. Their narrow mindedness never allows them to think beyond this matter.

PRETENDING to be pious never serve their purpose. If a boy really wants to be a RESPECTED brother, he must look inside, he should ask his conscience who he really is himself, he must improve himself before pointing someone out.

And whoever is very anxious and restless about pointing others out and improving others instead of him, is actually indirectly show their own deeds because “great talkers are never great doers”.



AKHIR MUSALMAAN HI KYUN ?

AKHIR MUSALMAAN HI KYUN ?

NABI PAK  HAZRAT MOHAMMAD  (S.A,W) hum musalmano kai liye nihayat hi qablai ahtraam hain jin kai begar hum musalmano ki zindagi na mukamal hai. NABI PAK(S.A.W) ALLAH kai mehboob bandain hain jin ka ahteraam hum sub pe wajib hai magar aj hamarai pyarai pegambar ki jab bhi  bai hurmati dekhti hoon tou mera  khoon khol othta hai  kai kyun ? hum musalmaan hi kyun ?  hamarai NABI PAK (S.A.W) hi kyun???..

NABI PAK (S.A.W) ka cartoon banadia hum ne kia kiya ? yahan pe koi dunia ki mashoor hasti ko koi kuch keh dai tou hangamai ho jatai hain tou ummat-e-muslima is baat pe eekhatai ho kai sakht action kyun
 nahi letai?.

koi bhi ajaye aur bai hurmati kar kai chala jaye kyun ? humai un mulko se talukaat bil kul khatam kardainai chaye jo is ghatiya kaam mai shamil hain . Ek sawal jo mere dimagh mai ata hai kai jab hum (musalmaan)
kisi kai bhi mazhab ki ahem shaksiyat ka cartoon nahi bnatai tou hamarai mazhab ko nishana kyun bnaya jata hai ?

ab yeh hum musalmano ki begerti aur dheetayi hai kai woh chup ho kai tamasha dekhtai rahen ghulam bano magar itne nahi kai deen , NABI ko bhul jao . tamam musalman qoomai ek hojayen aur un tamam mulko se lataluki akhtiyar kar lain jo jo is  gathiyaa kaam mai shamil hain.
 Aaee musalmano dikha du kai un logo nai kis ka mzak oranai ki himat ki hy aaae musalmaano mat daroo  yeh mamla ALLAH kai mehoob Bandai hamarai NABI PAK HAZRAT MOHHAMAS (S.A.W) ka hai .

PROBLEMS OF HOUSE WIFE

Kaha jata he k orten ghar k kamon k lia bani hn or mard bahr k kamon k lia, lakin kia kbi kisi ne ye socha he k jo orten ghr me kam karti hn unke kia masail hoty hn or inhen kia masail dar pesh aty hn.
hum in orton ko to bht sarhaty hn jo hr kam karti hn or proffesional zindgi me age barh rai hn par in orton ka kia jo ghar k kam karti hn. Aj me inke bary me likhna chahti hn hamare moashare me har tarhan ka kirdar ada karahi hn  ek maa, ek behan, ek beti ya ek baho or takreeban har tarhan k shobay me orten apna ahem kirdar ada karahi hn ek house wife ki jahan bat ki jai to un k lia kaha jata he k inhen karna kia hota he siwai ghar k kamon k jabkey dar asal in hi ki wjw se hamara ghar chalta he.in k masail ki taraf dekha jai to inhen b bht masly hoty hn jin ko hm nazar andaz kardety hn.susral waly larkion ko kam k nam pe beyah k lejaty hn or nokarani jaisa bartao karty hn.shohar ki sakhtian, bachon ki badtamizian sb bardasht kar k wo kamon se pechy ni hat ti or kbi na kbi wo apne ghar walon ka dil jeet hi letyi he.hamenaisy iqdam uthana chahia jis se hm unke haqooq inko dilwa saken or inke masail k sath sath inhen ek behtar zindgi mil saky.

GIRL MAKES Herself A PRICELESS THING:

2 3 din pehlay university mai 2 alag alag lrkyon k group zor zor se chekh kr koi behs krahay thay unse thoray hi faslay pr mai b apni doston k sath bethi thi or sunray thi unki behs phir ahista ahista unlogon ki awazain brhne lagi mgr humay phr b samj nai ara tha k itnay gussay mai konsi behs chalrai hai unk bech.usk bd unmai se ik lrki ne bht hi gandi language istamal krna shru krdi or phir boltay boltay agay chali gaye.humay thori tashvesh hui k akhir mamla hai kiya.

Phir unhi mai se ik lrki humaray pas se guzri tu humnay us se pocha k ye sb kia horaha that u pta chala k itna chekhna chilana or btamezi ik lrkay k pechay horai thi.pehlay tu hum sun kr bht hasay or phir mje bd mai bht afsos hua k hum lrkiyon ne apnay apko kitna chota or gira hua bna lia hai k ik aisa lrka jsey koi rishta tk nai unkay sath,uskay pechay wo jangli biliyon ki trhan lr rai thi.chahay wolrka unse khel hi ku na raha ho.mgr nai ye sochne ka tym kahan bs lrne se matlab hai na.

Aj ki lrki ne apni izat apni value khhud hi khatamki hai.ye hrkaten krne k bd kehti hain k fallah lrka kitna kharab hai lrki ki izat nai krta mgr asliyat ye hai jo k thori krvi zror hai k tm apni izat jb krwana hi nai chahogi tuku koi tmari izat krega..

Privatization

Privatization ek aisa amal he jisme hakomati idaron ko ya to mukamal tor pe bech dia jata he ya phr uske chand hisy farokht kardia jaty hn.in idaron me banking sectors, commercial idary,telecom sectors, zarai idary shamil hoty hn .amoman in idaron ko privatize kia jata he jo ya to hakomat k control me ni hoty ya to wo idary hakomat ko shadid nuksan pohancharai hoty hn.ya mustakbil me nuksan pohancha skty hn.
Amoman dunya bhar me privatisation ka amal nihayat shafaf andaz me hota he .inhi makasid ko hasil karny k lia privatisation ki jati he.lakin uske bar aks bad kismati se pakistan me siasi mudakhlat ki waja se privatization ka amal ghair shafa hota he.
Amoman aisy idaron ko privatize kardia jata he jo mulki khazanon ko mali faida pohancharai hoty hn.
Siasi shakhsiat ka in idaron ki farokht me amal dakhal hota he jo k badnomani karty hn or mali fawaid hasil karty hn.
me rai ye he k is amal ko sara sar khatam kardena chahia q k zada tar awam hakomati idaron ko tarjeeh dety hn.or jb inhe ko farokht kardia jai ga to gharib awam kahan jai gi... 

UNFIT BHOJA KO AKHIR KAAR KYUN BHEJA..???

 UNFIT BHOJA KO AKHIR KAAR KYUN BHEJA..???

 20 april 2012  magrib k waqt Rawalpindi k aik gaon Hussainabaad  main Bhoja Airline ka plane crash hoa. Is hadsai main amlai samait 136 logo ki jaan chali gae. In tamaan janoo kai nuksan ka zimaidar kon hai?  in k lawahikeen ko jawabdai kon hai?

Mausam kharab honai k bawajood is parwaz ko urnai ki ijazat kyun di thi..? Is hadsai se pehle dopaihar 3 bajai aur sham 6 bajai mausam kharab honai ki italaat di gaen magar civil avialtion walo ne parwaz roknai kai liyai koi ikdam nahi kiye.

Hamarai yahan kharab mausam mai parwazo ki aamdo raft ko band kyun ni kiya jata ? kya insani jano ki koi ahmiyat nahi ya insani jaanai mahez ek mazak hain ???

ek esa hi  hadsa  air blue airline kai ek plane ko  July 2010 mai paish aya tha  jis mai 152 log jahan behaq hogaye thai .donu hadsai ki wajohat ek hain fark hai tou bas airline ka  aur hadse ki jaga ka .itne kharab musam mai jahaz ki aamad o raft band kar kai itne barai hadsai sai bacha ja sakta tha.

 Hamarai  hukam  sara ilzaam pilot pe laga deti hai aur  tamaam zimaidari pilot pe  dal daitai hain aur yeh nahi diakhtai keh agar pilot gair zimaidari dikhaega tou uski khud ki jaan khatrai main hogi aur ek pilot kabhi bhi itne logo ki jaan ka risk nahi lega  aur itni asaani se apni omer bhar ki izat , apne omer bhar kai naam ko kharab nahi hone dega.

 Yeh jahaz jo crash hoa Bhoja airline  takreeban 30 saal purana tha jo kai pehlai Shaheen airways ki malkiyat main tha. Shaheen airways ki taraf se grounded kiyai janai kai baad bhoja Airline ne isai sastai damon kharid kar insani  zindagio se khelna shuru kardia.

 Ab yahan is hadsai ka zimaidar kon hai Airlines ya phir Civil Aviaition?  Yeh tou 3 maah baad ya ek saal baad pata chalega aur pata chalega bhi kai nahi  yeh nahi keh saktai ..ab tak airblue plane crash ka pata nahi chala yeh tou bohat duur ki baat hai .Zimaidar jo bhi ho kisi ki jaan ka radobadal kch bhi nahi ho sakta.
 

Puri Pakistaani qaum ki yeh iltija hai kai khudara is kharab musam mai parwazoo ki aamdo raft band kar diya Karen aur in tamam grounded jahazu ko band kar dain  pesa tou baad mai bhi kamaya ja sakta hai magar insaani jaan ki koi kimaat nahi .  pesa kamanai ka haal tou yeh hai k is mushkil waqt mai bhi mayatien lai janai kai liye lwahikeen se pese liye jarhen hain .

ALLAH is hadsai mai tamam jahan behak afrado ko maghfirat karai aur un kai ghar walo ko sabar atta karai .AMEEM

            Siachen K jawano ko Salam...

Siachen kai jawan  jo is waqt barfani toodai kai niche dabai hain unko pura mulk salam karta hai  . Siachen mai jo barfani tooda hamare jawanu pe gira hy woh kisi qayqmat se kam nahi hy . Hum ajj apnai gharoon main chain ki neend is liyai sotai hain kyun kai hamare jawan  din raat apni neend ki parwah kiyai baghair hamari is Pak watan ki hifazat kartai hain.  

Hamarai muhafiz, Humari jawan jo siachin ki sakht sardi main hamari hifazt k liyai taenat rehtai hain  magar aj  un main se kayi us barfani toodai talai dabai hain ..

Hamari Military , Pak Fauj  , civil aviation , apni gee tor mehnat se hamarai Pak faujio ko nikalne ki koshish kar rahe hain aur  Dunya bhar se mahiro ki team ayi  hy  magar woh baraf k neechai phasai howe jawano ko nikalnai mai abhi tak kamyab nahi ho sakai ..

Aj Pakistan kai halat ese hain kai aksaryat logo mai hobul watni ka jazba kam hota dikhta hy magar is siachen kai waqye nai btadia kai mulk ki ahmeeyat kitni hai kai hamarai jawan apni jaan ki parwa kiye bager din raat is mulk ki hifazat karte hain jo kisi kai bhai , betai , baap , shohar  hain.  

Aj is qayamat khez ghari mai hum un tamam jawano kai ghar walo kai sath hain,  na un kai jawanu ab tak  koi  khabar hy ese mai sabar karna aur mushkil hojata hai. Is hadsai mai kisi ka bhi bachna ek mujza hoga aur ALLAH ki zaat apna mujza dikha sakti hai hamai  ache ki umeed rakhni chaye.

GUNNAH ASAN SHARIYAT MUSHKIL:

Humari modern society mai ye trend bngaya hai k humaray lyea gunnah krna tub ht asan hogaya hai mgr shariyat pr chalna bht mushkil or is mai sirif ik lrki ya lrkay ki ghalti nai hoti bulkay parents b brabr k shareek hotay hain or majority parents tu is bat ko b nai smj patay k wo apney bachon ko ik ghalat kam ki ijazat khud detay hain or khud hi usko religious values pura krne se rukhtay hain.

Wesay tu iski bht si examples hain magr abi kuch hi din pehlay menay notice jo chez ki wo ye thi k ik larka or lrki ghr main bagair inform kiyea bahir ghomtay phirtay rahain tu us main ghr walon ko koi ehtiraz nai hota ku k ye bat ghr walon ki knowledge mai hoti hi nai or agr ghalti se b ksi lrkay ya lrki ne ghr main btanay ki himat kr b li or shadi ki bat krna b chahi tug hr main tofan khara hojata hai .Amiyan apni starplus ki kahaniyan ya wesai dialogue shru krdeti hain or papa ye kehtay hain k tumhey hamari izat ka khayal nai aya,or agr lrka hotu ye k tumhari prhai,tumari gari,tumhara bangla in sub chezon k bagair tum kesay krsktay ho shadi even k engagement tk nai.

Arey bai akhir ku nai,nikah ya shadi mai apni pasand ka izhar krna hr lrkay or lrki ka sharai huq hai jiski khwahish agr wo zahir krdain tu wo besharam hain or dosri taraf koi ghalat kam krtay phiren tu wo bht acha beta ya beti hai ku k ma bap k samne tu acha image bana wa hai na pechay chahay bchay jo b krtay phiren.

Aj k dor ka hr insan itna materialistic ho chukka hai k usnay apnay lyea or apne sath rehnay walay logon k lyea gunnah or jhoot ko tu bht asan bnadia hai mgr shariyat or legal tarekay ko bht mushkil or ik na mumkin kam…

EXAMPLE IS BETTER THAN INSTRUCTION

Last night I was reading a magazine in that I found the above line “EXAMPLE IS BETTER THAN INSTRUCTION” I was really impressed by reading that line and I decided to write a blog on it. It is really very true that saying and doing are two different things. It is easy to say something, but it is difficult to perform it. For performing a task and to give something a practical shape, a person needs will power, courage and continuous efforts. I am also in the favor of this concept. While I was writing the blog on this subject some usual examples arrived in my mind like I saw many fathers instruct their children not to smoke but they are their self are chain smokers. So a child cannot give up smoking until his father himself sets an example. Similarly mostly parents want their children would offer prayer five times daily but if the parents are not offering prayers so the instruction for the children is useless. The common habit of lying in us is just because the parents’ only precept the children not to lie but they are also lying on the same time so why they expect that their children will not do that thing. It is necessary to set an example which is better than precept.

The saying “example is better than instruction” is more true about the government. If the government is itself corrupt, it cannot expect the people to good and honest. It is said that “JAISI GOVERNMENT WAISE LOUG.” If the government does wrong deeds in the society, it loses respect and confidence of the people. This is what happening in our country. Practical demonstration always helps in understanding everything that is being given.

Moreover, laws are made in our country and are good in books. But they are made for the good of us. But they have no values if they are not followed so practical example is necessary at each and every level. We should always follow the golden rule that “DO WHAT YOU PREACH.” If we project good manners so it has good influence on others and if we project something bad so we lose our respect and it will leave negative impression on others. At last I believe in this sentence that “MAN LIVES IN DEEDS NOT IN WORDS.”

HOW CAN PAKISTAN BECOME A STRONG NATION.....................

HOW CAN PAKISTAN BECOME A STRONG NATION

In the modern world,the world goes to him,who is the fittest and the most tactful. For our survival as an independent nation, it is essential to build it on modern lines.

New incentives should be given to the farmers. They play the key role in the economy of our country. There are many defects in our system of education. It is examination ridden. The need for technical education is very great . our country is on the way to industrialization. It is therefore, necessary that there should be a shift of emphasis in our education. More and more people should get technical education. It is one of the way to Pakistan become a strong nation.  

In order to make Pakistan a strong nation we should strictly adhere to the principles of Islam. Islam is a source of strength and unity. We should re-model our lives political,social,moral and economical according to the teachings of Islam We should not forget that Pakistan was created be cause the Muslims wanted to put the Islamic ideals into practice.


 Today,the whole nation stands united and has respond its confidence in the hands of people’s government. We have to see whether the new government upholds this confidence in the spirit of a mission.

load shedding is a blessing....

I know what is running in your mind. The title seems stupid right??? Ok... let me explain you. Every one of you will totally agree with me in the end. Yesterday I was in my gallery with my family when lights were out. I was having a walk as I had nothing else to do in dark. What a peaceful environment that was. Cool breeze blowing and no noise were around. It was very calm and relaxing. I noticed some other neighbors were also walking in their gallery. Some were talking and having tea with family. Well, I was very tired and waiting for the electricity so that I could start my assignment as I was running out of time to complete my project. But suddenly, I felt bliss. I started to enjoy the environment. How healthy and relaxing load shedding is, I have never think it before.

Very first, I hardly get time to walk but thanks to the load shedding, it gives me chance to pick a lot of time to walk. It helps to keep my health fit. In addition to this, it gives us chance to spend our little time with family and a moment to relax.

Secondly and perhaps most important blessing, it gives us opportunity to get rid of studies. With this blessing, I can luckily get chance to get away from horrible assignments and we come out with an excuse "sorry ma'am assignment is not ready... light he nahi thi poora din". What an excuse I would seek if there were no load shedding??? Loads of thank to our energy crises.

Moreover, the other thing I learnt is; punctuality. No matter where Pakistanis are punctual or not, they never forget to turn our lights off. And not a single day has passed when they forget to perform this very sincere duty. Light goes everyday on their promised timings. This is how sincere people do their jobs.

Now let’s think about the electronic appliances, even they got chance to relax a little bit. Think about the T.V that nonstop telecast horrible news of terrorism and terrible and pathetic saas bahu dramas. I feel big relief when T.V stops bashing.

And at last when I see electricity bill in my hand (which is 6000 minimum), I feel pleasure. A lot of benefit in just Rs. 6000/=??? After all, anything which is giving such learning and relief, deserve more than that. I would ready to pay the double. In fact we are lucky to have such energy crises which make SO MUCH difference in our lives and I hope the same for the rest of the years of Pakistan.

I am sure you are going to break your UPS and generators after reading this. Understand and value this blessing. Keep on Pakistanis….. GHUT GHUT KAY GEO….!!!!

Is youth our strength ?

With the arrival of 2012, we have experienced hospital twice. First in January, my father got heart attack and recently in March, my mother had operation of gall bladder. Both are recovering very well MASHALLAH.

Both the times we experienced a lot.  So many things I see in hospital and God forbid everyone from any situation which brings them into hospital. I stayed two days and nights there with my mother. I used to wake up all the night, sometimes I walked in the corridor while my mother was asleep. The HDU ward was right outside. I sometimes peeped into the HDU and other wards. Patients fitted with number of pipes and wires, my heart squeezed whenever I saw them.

As I stayed, one thing I noticed was extremely disappointing. Almost 70% of the patients were young, fighting between life and death. In the morning most of them were walking in the corridor while my mother noticed the same. Except an old woman, all of them were young in their twenties and thirties, accompanied with one of their parents who were helping them holding their pipes. God knows from how many diseases they were suffering from. The most distressing moment was when my father was in heart hospital, I saw two boys (who were in their early thirties) died of heart attack. I was wondering why the youngsters are in so much trouble.

Now look at the reasons, how many of us walk daily? I am sure nobody. Even when we want to go to the nearby market we prefer to go by bikes and cars but never bother to go by walk. If we ponder over our diet, what we would like to eat all the time is totally impure. How many us want to eat loki, kaddu, began, bhindi etc.? Very few. Our demands are mostly burgers, pizzas, tikkas, and every type of fried and spicy things without adding to consider about its nutritional facts. In schools, offices, university and offices, some people feel ashamed to bring homemade food with them and very happily eat poisonous food daily. We love to have soft drinks instead of having 8 glass of water daily.

Even if we think to eat simple meat and vegetable, they are grown in the polluted water. Moreover, the fertilizers used in plants are mixed with urea and other chemicals. When talk about animals, they are fed artificial foods.

Moreover, smoking is becoming a fashion, especially among young boys which is inviting more diseases. Even those who don’t smoke cigarette, smoke passively. The increasing pollution doesn’t allow us to inhale pure oxygen. Now let’s talk about our routine which has high impact on our health. How many of us used to sleep early and wake up early? This is perhaps hard thing to do. I call it the part of fashion, people love to spent time on phones, internet and listening to FM late nights. Our health is very much depend upon our routine i.e., our sleeping timings, dinner time, lunch time etc.

Youth is said to be the strength of nation. But very unluckily, our strength is going weak. What would be the condition of a nation if its youth were not healthy? May ALLAH protect us from every disease and make our youth and nation strong. Amen.

Dancing Commercials

Few hours back i was watching a news bulletin with my family where news caster says will be right back after a short commercial break, my mind reminds me the rally of dance , singing and vulgarity in their short break making me immediately feel to switch the channel because i was not in mood to stay tuned that channel where i saw a cultural show.

 

                              Advertising we all know is a way of communication to encourage their consumers to buy a product but i fail to understand that how a tea milk product can be sold with dancing and singing with overweight lahenga's, ? a number of examples are there including pakola tea milk, tarang, good milk from where i can learn dancing steps  and what about the product ? i have never ever seen clearly. 

                                       

                             Biscuits ads where we see lot of peoples are dancing and singing not behind the scenes having/ eating biscuits and love to do dancing while eating biscuits ? i have never ever seen people do this. 

                                    

                                   

                              Mobile phones ads where ladies were dancing while talking on phones :o these are Pakistani commercials ? are these commercials presenting our culture , norms and values ? or is this a demand of brand so that consumers can buy ? 

                                      

                              Is singing and dancing necessarily in commercials? or it means to grip on people to make them go and buy brands ?

                                 

                             TV ads is a source of communication and entertainment but it does not mean to sell dancing , singing and nudity a lot of ads made by agencies only for public demand. all we can see veet ads and all hair removing ads, tarang and biscuits ads tea ads are on airing on TV channels day and night even in the news bulletin :s. 

                                

                             i know music can fulfil the advertisements but choreographed singing and dancing to sell a product is sounds so awkward we have seen in past decades where products sold without any nudity and dancing. 

                  These ads should be ban in pakistan because as an islamic nation it does not suits us to sell product through this we can easily says that indian culture is dominating on our societies and peoples love to watch it because they idealized indian dramas. 

OVERCONFIDENT PEOPLE:

    Recently I have met some people who are overconfident about their personality. They make their own rules are followed and they think that they are the utmost intelligent personalities of the world and people are appreciating them. Why they don’t think that majority of human being love to give compliments in front of an individual and make fun of them behind them.

    To believe on you is a good thing but to over believe on yourself is not that good as some people think. I never understand that why people become rude when anyone say that they are overconfident and it can harm them.

    These types of people should understand that they are human beings and they can never be so perfect in their decisions or in giving opinion about anything. They should understand that they also have negative and positive aspects in their personalities. They are not always as true as they think about their selves.

    So those people who are having this obsession should discontinue this before they will fall down and will break their own personality and image just because of their meaningless confidence.

IMPORTANCE OF FEMALE EDUCATION

My uncle had passed away two years before my aunty have three children after my uncle’s death she is facing so many financial issues. She is not very well educated. I went at her place last week she was crying that she cannot do anything for her children because she is not educated she was saying that “agar main parh laiti tou aj rona nai parhta” by this sentence I felt and realized the importance of female education. According to the great philosopher Aristotle, “to neglect the education of the young ones, is to weaken the constitution of the country.”

No doubt, education is equally important for both male and female. Our religion also emphasizes on acquiring education and considered it as an obligatory unit for both man and woman. Girls are said to the light of home but according to my opinion if women are educated they can carry the light where ever they go. If the women are educated they can prove better mothers and wives. Instead if even they will not go into their professional lives but they can educate their children, become good house wives, and look after the comforts and health of the family. Even they can also earn money through reputable jobs. Female education is now becoming a necessity and those who think that education is only for man should have to change their thinking because at any stage they will realize the importance of female education at that time they could do nothing because time and tide wait for none. An educated woman can support her family or husband by earning herself. I heard many times that most of the people thought that “job karna larkion k bas ki baat nahi… parh likh k karna kia hai choola handi he tou karna hota larkion ko bus…” Their thinking is totally wrong. Nowadays those women who are getting education are leading our nation towards progress and prosperity. So if we want to have a concordant growth so female education is to be given due importance in the planning schemes. More girl’s schools or colleges are to be opened all over the country. More shares are to be allotted for the purpose of female education which helps in the development of a nation and lead towards the accomplishment of the goals in a positive manner.

SUMMER VICATIONS AUR RAMAZAAN

SUMMER VICATIONS AUR RAMAZAAN

Ramazaan musalmano ke liye ek ahem tareen mahina hai aur is mahinai mai sab musalmano ki koshish hoti hy ke ziada se ziada  waqt ibadato mai guzarain aur ramazaan ke tamam rozai rakhen .

Pichle saal Ramazaan august mai aya tha aur august mai bohat garmia thi aur load shedding bhi hori thi hala ke hakumati dawai thy ke Ramazaan mai load shedding nahi hogi magar phir bhi hoti rahi ab is haal mai rozai rakhna kesa hojata hai yeh hum tamam Pakistani jantai hain .

Hamarai yahan summer vications june , july mai di jati hai hy hum ek  musalman mulk hai agar hum june july mai vications dene  ke bajaye Ramazaan ke mahinai ko vications ke liye ahmyet dai tou rozai rakhne mai students  ko  bohat asani hojayegi  .

Is bar Ramazaan july ke akhir mai arha hai aur garmiyaan bohat hongi  tou  kyun na is bar vications july aur august ke mahino mai di jay ta k hum students ke liye rozai rakhna asaan hojaye aur load shedding bardasht karne ki thori  si himat bhi ajyegi kyun k school , college , university se a kar hr ek ke liye  load shedding bardasht karna bohat mushkil ho jata hai.

Mai apne is blog ke zarye tamam talimi idarro se yeh request karongi aur suggest karongi kai please is baar vications Ramazaan ko dhayan mai rakhtai howe dain , kyun ke Vications students ki hi sahulato ke liye di jati hain.

EDUCATIONAL CRISIS

Jaisa k hm janty hi hn k taleem hm sb k lia kitni eham he,jisy zaruri qarar dia gaya he.
hadees me he "ILM HASIL KARO MAA KI GOUD SE LEKAR LEHAD TAK"
Is kisam ki or b bht si ahadees hn,lakin hamary mulk me in ahadees k bar aks taleem ko
mushkil se mushkil tareen kia jaraha he. logon k lia taleem hasil karna jahad ban gaya he
uper se halat ne pareshan kar k rakh dia he.Maaen tb tk sakoon ka sans ni leti jb tk unke  
bachay ghar ni ajaty.taleem ko mehanga tareen kardia gaya he jo ghareebon ki pohanch se
 koson door hoti jarai he ,dusry mumalik me primary tk taleem muft he.
lakin hamary mulk me taleemi funds tk khatam kardia gai hn,jo talabat scholarship par bairon 
e mulk taleem hasil karny gai hue hn wo shadid mushkilat ka samna karai hn unke funds rok dia gai hn.

Inteha to ye b he k har sal S.S.C or H.S.C  k imtehanat k wakt pe hi halat kharab kar dia jaty hn,
taleem k sath khilwar ye b he k paper se pehly hi paper chand paison k lia out kardia jata he.
or mazay ki bat k har jaga avalible b hojata he.
colleges ka ye alam he k jb isateza hi paband nai hnge to talabat ki khak hnge.jaisy k koi 
pochny wala hi na ho. 
or universities k halat to ap or hm sb janty hi hn. 
agar yehi hal raha taleem ka to kia hoga is mulk ka or kia bany ga hm sb ka,,,
ZARA SOCHEA!!!!!`

ENJOY LITTLE THINGS IN LIFE

         

  To some, it's a rule to live by.  To me, it's just four little words: enjoy the little things.  If life has taught me anything, it's that it moves by faster than you expect it to, no matter how desperately you try to hold onto a moment, a thought, a feeling...anything.  Time stops for no one, and nothing can change that.  But it doesn't mean that there's nothing we can do to fight back.  Everyone is able to exact a bit of revenge on the universe in their own unique way.

For me, that means savoring life.  Good times or bad, there's no reason not to make the best of it.  The world can be an amazing place if you look at it the right way.  Outlook is a matter of perspective.  If you spend all your time behind a desk or at home, there's a lot you could miss out on.  At the end of the day, it's the people and events in our lives that shape us that build socialistic qualities in us.  Fun shouldn't be an article of trade.  Putting yourself out there and making a mistake can be a lot more rewarding than thinking back on what could have been.

In life so many circumstances came into the path but in three words I can sumup everything I’ve learned in life: IT GOES ON… It’s the little things that make life big. Find the little reasons to enjoy life like Dancing in the rain like nobody is watching, throw popcorns while watching movie, enjoy the smell after the rain. Little things mean a lot.

I feel like our world lives in a constant rush.  There's always something to do or somewhere to go.  It's sad that people don't often make the time to just stop and look around.  There's so much to see and do if you're willing to go out and find it.  It seems like we're always waiting for something to save us or make us who we are or get us where we're going, but it's not something to leave to chance.  Life is what happens while we're waiting.  Go out and enjoy every second of it.

ZINDAGI PHIR NA MILAY GI DOBHARA...........

ZINDAGI PHIR NA MILAY GI DOBHARA...............

Zindagi aik kimti tofha hai allah ki taraf say aur hamay is say bhut mohabat karni chaiyea aur is ka sahi istamal karna chaiye. Bhut say log esay bhi hain jo apni zindagi ka galat istamal kar rahay hain lakin mai un logo say pochti hun q akhir q apni zindagi barbad karna chatay hain wo log?

Aik jaga wo log hain jo apni zindagi ko pori planning kay sath guzarne ki koshish kartay hain aur aik wo log hain jo mobile snacking, loot mar mai lagay hain wo bhi hum mai say hi tou hain na unhay yeh nahi pata k wo aik na aik din maray jae gaye aur marte hain itni buri tarha phr yeh q nahi sochtay k un kay bad unki family ka kya hoga?

Esay bhi log hain jo apni sehat ka khaya rakhtay hain aur wakt p khana kahtay hain juices pitay hain aur aik wo log hain jin ko apni zindagi ki parwa nai hai aur wo yeh jantay hain lakin phr bhi sharab pitay hain aur us kay bad road p jaga jag latay hotay hain. Hamara mulk aik islami mulk hai lakin us k bawajod bhi hamaray han bars hain, disco hain. Akhir q hamari government isay band nahi kar wa dayti? Log sab jantay hain lakin us k bawajod bhi sirf buri taraf ja rahay hain fashion hamay mana nahi hai magar aik limit mai reh kar karna chaiye bazar chalay jao to larkia esay esay kapray pehni hui hoti hain k logo ko dekh k sharam ajae magar unhay koi fark nai parhta. Esa q hai kya wo bhul gai kay hamara islam hamay kya sekhata hai.

Sub jantay hain log lakin us kay ba wajod bhi buraiyan kiye ja rahay hain. Unhay pata hai kay yeh zindagi unki apni hai aur dobhara nahi milay gi unhay yeh bhi pata hai kay unhay upar ALLAH ko in sub chezon ka jawab dayna hoga aur apnay kiye ki saza bhi bhukatni hogi. Agar hamari awam yeh sub jan jae to hum apni zindagi ko aik behtar rastay p chala saktay hain . Bat sirf itni hai k agar hum chahay tou lakin kya karay log duniya ki ash-o-ishrat mai itna kho gaye hain k unhay ab kuch nahi dekhta.

“JEELO JEELO KHUL KAY LAKIN ALLAH KO YAD KARTAY HUAY AUR YEH BHI JAN LO KAY ZINDAGI PHR NA MILAY GI DOBHARA MERAY DOST”...........