TARGET KILLING.

  TARGET KILLING.........

Hamaray mulk ka sub se zada khubsurat sher karachi hai jis say rooshinio ka sher bhi kaha jata hai . Sub se zada jag magata hua, sub se zada ronak,hr chez mai sub se bhetar hai lakin kon hai wo log jo is sher aur hamaray mulk ko berbad karna chatay hain? aur q kar rahay hain? Akhir q?

In sub sawalon ka jawab aj tak koi ni day pay hai aur na day sakta hai.Masoom log jin ka koi kasur ni hota unhay be dardi se mar dia jata hai “karay koi aur bharay koi” ye kaha ka insaf hai. Aj,kal,aur is pehlay wo kon log thay jin ho nay kisi aur ki saza un becharay mazlum aur be baas logo ki de un kay ghar ujar dea akhir kab tak karachi may yeh sub hota rahay ga kon lay ga in sub kay khilaf action?

Aj tak hamari government bhi in logo ko pakar ni pai hai na halat behtar hotay hain na wo log pakray jatay hain .Kisi bhi party ka koi marta hai foran kuch hi lamho mai halat kharab ho jatay hain becharay logo ki car jalai jati hain karreb logo aur rah chaltay logo ko mar dia jata hai aur hum kya kartay hain sirf tamasha dekhtay hain.  Aur afsoos kartay hain q nai hum aik ho jae aur apni yeh larai mil kar laray  ho sakta hai hamari is koshish se hum un logo ko bacha sakay aur apnay mulk mai phr wo khushia la sakay.

Bs yahi kehna chahon gi is zulm se bachnay kay lea aur bay mout maray k lea humay hi kuch karna hoga aik hokar apni jung khud larni hogi aur jeetni bhi “INSHALLAH”.

BE PAKISTANI AND BUY PAKISTANI....

Last Saturday I had attended a party arranged by my father’s friend we all family members were invited. When I reached there I was shocked by watching the dresses of all women for some time I felt that I was out of my own country. All most of the girls were wearing skirts, sleeveless shirts, pants etc. As we all know that dress is a sign of our culture and national identity but it also reflects our personal character. All nations are proud of their national dresses but in Pakistan I don’t know why people are adopting western trends??? Here the concept of adaptation is rising at higher level. Western dresses are completely different from Pakistani dresses. I am in favor of national dresses. I believe in the patriotic words “BE PAKISTANI AND BUY PAKISTANI.”

I observed that in any part of the world people prefer more their national dresses like at international forums, meetings and conferences. Our neighbors, the Indians put on kurta, dhoti and Ghandi caps. But we Pakistanis feel pride in putting on western dresses.

I know there are fashions even our culture has given us a variety of dresses. No doubt there are personal likes and dislikes but feeling shy of wearing Pakistani dresses is a sign of inferiority complex. On the other side western dresses include shirts, coats, skirts, miniskirts etc. according to me all these stuff like miniskirts, sleeveless shirts etc. are basically designed to display body parts. As compared to these dresses, Pakistani dresses are more attractive and graceful. According to me dress is basically designed to cover the body which enriches one personality and impresses others. So in my opinion instead of adopting other culture we should feel proud to putting on Pakistani dresses which is a sign of simplicity and encourages the power of nationalism…….

GIVE & TAKE..

     What is happiness in your mind? I asked the couple of people what made him/her happy. Their answers were as follows:

·         A big huge Mercedes car.

·         A shopping spree at the mall with no limitations on the money spent.

·         A laptop with the latest hacking software loaded on it and enough money to buy stuff for it.

·         A huge house with a swimming pool, Jacuzzi, fields, horses and big bedrooms, American kitchen.

      The common thread to link them all is money, reputation, latest fads and in one case a huge appetite. The fact is that in today’s modern age, happiness is completely materialistic. It is either linked to selfish interests. For a normal human a good life is one where they earn a lot and have a lot. A good life is not classified by helping others, doing something for charity or enjoying the little things in life.

      Some people believe that this really isn’t something to be worried about. Some parents encourage their children to look at self needs before other’s need for a more productive lifestyle. Slowly but steadily, people are forgetting the true essence of what it means to be happy and content. Desires have gained precedence over altruism.

     Gone are the days when helping out in a charitable organization or watching rain from a window were deemed as the good things in life. Today people looks for air conditioned malls and plush interiors. Remember the times our parents were satisfied by a single samosa of “athanay” or the first rainfall of the season.

     When was the last time you went out and just wet yourself in the rain for the pure pleasure of it, not worrying about your designer clothes? When was the last time you helped a person and feel warmth inside you? When was the last time you were not bored of your laptops, televisions, facebooking and music systems? When was the last time you were happy, just for being alive? When was the last time you were happy about being able to be happy?

     For me happiness is when the people smile because of me. For me happiness is when my parents hold my hands, for me happiness is the process of "GIVE AND TAKE".

HAT'S OFF TO ALL PARENTS.

Whenever I disobey my parent’s advice, later on I realize that I was wrong and my parents were right. So that’s why I don’t disobey my parents .after all their all advices are always constructive for me. This is the reason for me to write on. Honor your father and mother so that the days in your lives are good. This avowal is in honor of all parents worldwide who are the source of entry into the world, responsible for your upbringing and overall development of your personality, name and eminence.

        No matter how severe a crime you commit, in the eyes of your parents, you remain an angel. Regardless of the fatalities in your life, you remain a champion in the parent’s perspective. Despite your age you will always remain a baby for them, their very own little one.

        They are the ones who celebrated with you in your accomplishment and cried along with u when you are desolate. They are the pillars behind your life, an unbreakable pillar made up of hope, Encouragement, love and trust.

        Parents are like comic strips, no matter how squat you feel, they brings a smile on your face. Better than the cup of tea at the end of a long, strenuous day. Superior than good music, sing along with them and you are transferred to an entire different realm. Parents are those skyscrapers; you keep lifting your head to look for their limits but can never see them.

        We as kids, no matter how much we strive we will never be able to make up for that unconditional, limitless love.

        These thoughts of mine are a tribute not only for my parents but to parents all over. Here’s a warm thanks going out to all of you. Hat’s off to all parents, A Divine Reality.

          A CHILD’S SUPPLICATION FOR HER PARENTS……

APRIL Fo0o0o0oL

April Fool har sal 1st april ko manaya jata he.jaisa k nam se hi zahir he k is ka maqsad logon ko bewaquf banana he,logon k sath intiha ki had tk jhoot bola jata he.takey wo jhooti khabar sun k pareshan hon.aksar okat log april fool me aisi khabar sunaty hn k sunny wala intihai aziat se dochar hojata he.yahan tk k baz log ya to behosh ya heart attack se chal basty hn.
April Fool waisy to her umer k log manaty hn lakin nojawan tabka isy zada josh say manata he.

April Fool ek aisa event he jis ka koi faida ni he balky ulta nuqsanat hn.har tabkay ko chahia k har form per is pe tanqid karen taky moashary se is nasoor ko khatam kia jai.hakomat per b zimadari aid hoti he k wo ye event electronic media k zariye logon me agahi paida kar k april fool ko ek ghair zaruri or ghair sharai fail karaa dia jai .akhir me main b yehi kahn gi k aisy events ka boycot karna chahia jis se kisi ki dil azari or dil shikni ho q k hm sb ye janty hn k yahoodion ne musalmanon ko dhoka se jhooti khabar sunai thi or un ki kashti ko aag laga di thi tb se ye din manaya jata he,hamen to chahia k hum age b logon ko aware karen na k khud april fool manaen.

CNG CRISIS

CNG compressed natural gaska mukhafaf he,jo k qudrati gas ko jadid technology k zariya compress karny se hasil ki jati he.isko dusry feul products k mutabadil k tor pe istemal kia jata he,dunya bhar me petrolium products ki qeematon me izafa or inke resources me musalsal kami ki waja se cng ka istemaal barh gaya he.cng technology america or europe ne mutaraf karwai he jis k asarat se ab puri duniya mustafid horai he.pakistan me cng ka istemal aj se kareeban 15 baras kabal shuru hua or ab mulk k tamam medani elakon me private or public transport ka istemal kia jaraha he.is k istemal se na sirf petrol or diesel par inhesar kam hua balky qeemati zarai mubadla b bachaya jaraha he cng ka shobae ministry,petrolium or natural resources k matehat chalta he jis ko oil and gas ki authority(OGRA) control or moniter karti he bad kismati se mehakma b pakistan k dusry mehakmo ki tarhan corruption or siasi asar o rasookh ki bedh char chuka he pury mulk me cng stationon ki bharmar ho chuki he.

Ek taraf to cng ki qeematen bht barh chuki hn or dusri taraf is ki shadid killat hochuki he jo k hafty me sirf 5 roz hi dastiyab hoti he jis ki waja se 2 roz petrol or diesel ka istemal kia jata he jis ka sara bojh awam k natawan kandhon pe par chuka he,jo k hakoomat ki na ehli or corruption ka mun bolta saboot he.

BOL RAHA HUN MAI KARACHI yahan....

BOL  RAHA  HUN  MAI   KARACHI  YAHAN …

Mai tha ek kushyio ka gulistaan

Log ghumtai thy dair raat yahan,

Bikhri rehti thi har pal yahan kushyian

Har koi tha baifikra yahan ,

Per na janai  ab kia hogya hy yahan

Har insan mayus hogaya hy yahan,

Logo  mai hy khauf ab yahan

Na raha koi bhi befikra yahan ,

Jalta hu mai  aye din yahan

Kabhi zaat k naam pe,kabhi katal k naam pe yahan ,

Hoti hy baat kch bhi yahan

Hojati hain meri sarkien veeraan,

Mt bhulo rhetai hai yahan bhi  insaan

 Bol raha hoon mai KARACHI yahan,

Kardo karam mujh pe yahan

Matt ojaro mera gulistaan yahan,

Rehti hy  fikar mai hr maa yahan

Laut  aye  kheryat se ghar  mera beta  jawan,

Na tou hy yeh rasta deen ka dunia ka…

Yeh tou  hy rasta  har ek k mufadoon ka yahan ,

Hogaya hy karobar tabah yahan

Mazdoor sota hy ab bhooka yahan,

Jalti hy yahan bike , buses , gariaan

 Mehfooz tk nahi koi bhi insaan ab yahan,

Mt ojaro mera gulistaan yahan

Bol raha hun mai KARACHI yahan………..

ik DARD-e- sar esa bhi

TING TONG . . . .. .. . .. SMS :P urgh phr woi 3rd class forwarded message ? :s what is need to be forwarded ?

Now a days social networking and communication is growing among all the generations. as this is growing the advertising agencies of mobile phones introducing new packages of SMS and call rates. advertising agencies and those organizations who are linked between cellular companies make me mad. whether it is morning or evening i received same forward messages about good night, subha bakher, shab bakher, messages including congratulation messages, jumma mubarak, 3rd class and poetry nasty jokes etc. sad but true due to these 3rd clas messages the battery of my mind is sick , and is not able to think more during work. SMS is a fastest growing service to communicate but too much usage is not good for us. few of the peoples are that type of people who love to forward nasty jokes and even they don't hesitate or don't feel shame. :s Thank God there is a delete option otherwise what happens to me ? i am become freaky like that ? oh no :(  one thing which i never understand that:
 if someone loves any politician than what is need to be inform me ?

if someone loves to take challenges than what is need to be send me ?  

same like that messages of Islam people don't even think before they send ?

                                                       Even since last year i received islami messages like plz send this to 10 people and in hour u get happiness ? try this @ once! ye hamara iman hai ? peoples love to send it. more over if u support any politician than send this message to 10 people u get a 100 rupees balance. & people likes to forward it without any verification they send translation of Qurani surahs.
few days back i received a message about DUA. dua about your mother i have no bad feeling no bad intention for your mother but do you really think peoples love to read these type of ? no they actually laugh, and after that they deleted pyar , or mohabbat messages me nahi dil me hota hai than there is no need to send these types of messages. nasty jokes and 3rd class poetry and ye har waqt ki bakhairen no need to wish me because i am also a citizen of this country from where you belong i know which bakhair is coming !
this is a pass time activity which irritates me some times badly :@
                                                 so, stop sending me 3rd class messages because i don't even read Thank God the deleting option is there .     

This is not a party

Last month, I had been to a soyem in one of my relatives. After Quran khuwani, when everyone were free from Maghrib prayers, I was watching the family members of person who had died. Everybody was shattered with pain, tired, heavy hearted, exhaust and suffering from the sleeplessness. I was thinking what would I do if I was in their place? How would I endure? Well, I asked ALLAH for their patience. Dinner time was drawing near so I decided to leave as soon as possible.

Meanwhile, many people started to visit for condolences that were not present at Quran khuwani. As I approached to my relatives to say them goodbye, nobody was letting me leave and very forcibly I agreed to eat very little. The menu was Biryani, qorma and zarda with the colorful topping of gulab jamun and cham cham. The menu seemed like I was invited in a dawat or something, which was very disappointing and unfit. Anyways, very hesitantly I took some biryani, feeling very ashamed that the people who were really in need of rest at that time, serving dinner and busy in hospitality. My appetite had already died as I saw them cry with grief.

Then I saw a woman who was sitting right in front of me at dastarkhuwan. She was searching for a better piece of chicken in biryani and then she asked somebody to bring some warm serving of biryani. I was  shocked to see the courage of that women. How could people reach to that height of shamelessness. It was extremely unethical and very unfortunately, it is happening in our society. The people who need condolence used to busy in arranging things like a party and we show very immoral behavior toward them.

Originally in old days, the concept was totally different. The relatives used to bring meal and serve the mourners, to sympathize the family, to lessen their burden. But now, we practise totally opposite.

This is very shameful trend gaining ground. We should realize the grief who are suffering, who lost their loved one. And instead of eating as a party, we should lessen their burden and support them.

Our Land: A Dustbin ?

A couple of days before when I was on my way to university, a beautiful car stopped at the signal right beside my van. A very decent and educated woman was sitting at the back seat accompanied with two children. She seemed well off and exhibited good position. Meanwhile, window rolled down and handful of garbage was thrown out from the same car. And then I was smiling at myself that I misunderstood about that ‘educated ’and ‘decent’ woman.

Right after that, a man came and spat paan on the footpath without watching pedestrians on the footpath. I was feeling to puke. I was cursing the system but there, the system is not responsible, we ourselves are responsible.

When I reached university, I was very hopeful that maybe I could bring change, so I decided to start the campaign from my own university. When I went to cafeteria, as usual I saw the floor full of wrappers and bottles. I approached a girl who had just thrown the wrapper and ask her very politely to use dust bins rather than floor. Instead of understanding what I said, she paid no heeds and I noticed she was making fun of me with her friends behind my back. Very sadly, I moved to my friends, hopeful for the positive response at least from them. But as I asked them the same, my advice fell flat on them as I said nothing at all.

It was very hurtful, why no one considers cleanliness? It is our educational institute, contain piles of garbage. What our education worth for if we forget etiquettes and cleanliness? The dustbins are empty and class rooms and corridors give the look of dustbins. We can’t even keep our educational institute clean, so the idea to keep our country clean would out of question.

On going back home, I was thinking the same. Then I saw something else, a wall painted “yahan kachra phenkna mana hai”, and piles of garbage were present right in front of it. What impression we give of our country? It is said that our actions reflect our mind, so what mentality we show to the world? Round the world, Pakistan is recognized in one of the most dirty and polluted countries. And abroad, the same Pakistanis become very anxious to keep their land clean, but why not here? Why not in our own?

Moreover, thousands of boards are painted which command us against rubbish and spitting but what is the benefit? We never bother to follow. We have to understand that we ourselves are the destructors. Nothing will change if we don’t want to. Our cleanliness shows our faith, our mind. In Quran it is truly stated:

                                        “Safai Nisf Emaan Hai”

SHOR IN THE COUNTRY

SHOR IN THE COUNTRY ….

Aja aja tu hy pyar mera ALLAH ALLAH inkar tera aa aa aja aa aja aa LIGHT  aja aaa L

Bijli(light) ayegi … bijli(light) aja … abto aja …. ALLAH please (bijli)light ajaye …

 yeh lafz hr Pakistani ki zuban per roz hotay hain aur jb light bht dair tak ni ati tou lafz aur shidat akhtiyar kar jatai hain jo mai yahan likh ni sakti jo k hr PAKISTANI samj chukka hoga.

Roz news pe  dekho tou mulk k ziadatar shero mai roz  bijli k buhraan pe ahtejaj hora hota hai aur ab to ahtejaj karne pe awam ko police k dandai b miltai hyn . Mujhe lagta hy  k hamari adhi zindagi ahtejajo mai guzar jayegi. Phele tou light  1 , 2 ghantai jati ti phr  2 , 2 ghantai 3 waqt jane lagi aur abto haal yeh hy k light kbi kbi ajati hy .

Hamara kia mustakbil(future) hoga jb k hamara haal(present) hi ni….Light na ho tou mulk ki economic tabah hojati hai jo k hamare mulk ki din ba din hoti jarhi hai .yahan student parh ni sakta sakun se na hi assignments bana sakta hy , karobar karne wla kam ni kar skta  light ho tou koi kam ho sake .u.p.s ,generator hr koi ni le sakta aur na hi  yeh lena iska hul hy.

 

Is ka hul kia hy ? dusre mulko  mai maslai hotai hain tou uska hul nikala jata hy magr hamarai yahan tou maslai ka hul tou door ki bat hy  bl k usko mazid budtr banadia jata hy .

Awam ahtejaj kr kr k marjaye yahan kisi ko koi farq ni parta. Bills  ziada atay hain jb k light ni hoti aye din bijli k rates mai izafa hota jata hy .thk hy rate barhadye , bills ziada ajaye mgr light tou do.

Is jadid daur mai b agar hul ni nikal sakte tou phr…………..  kia kahun?

Bht dipress hojati hun is light k kbi kbi hone se.Bill b bharo phr b light ni kia Karen humto bebas ho k rahe gaye hain.

PUBLIC CORRUPTION

As we all know that in our country “POWER CORRUPTS AND ABSOLUTE POWER CORRUPTS ABSOLUTELY.” Corruption is becoming a habit and practice and can be easily found at all the walks of life. But the thing is that our people have targeted our government for the criticism. Here I am not denying that our government is not corrupt. Both the public and the government are corrupt. So why we just only blame our leaders for the downfall of our state even we are also included equally in that crime. Why we do not criticize our public for performing the same action?????? Even daily I watch several programs on television which are designed to criticize the government only but no attention is paying towards the corrupted public.

Corruption has arisen at each and every level in our country. Public corruption means misuse of powers, violation of legal norms and moral standards. In Pakistan people believe in the saying that “PUT YOUR MONEY IN YOUR POCKET AND EVERYTHING IS ALRIGHT.” Our people also involved same as our government. Departure from religious values, lack of fear of God and sinking morality are the main causes of public corruption. In Pakistan the corruption flows from lower level to higher level. No action is taken for the misuse of powers. Government and people both are involved and there is still no check and balance. This corruption also affects our economy. I think that the reason behind this is nobody loves the country and no fear of God. All are busy in snatching wealth and to become rich at the cost of the country. The factor of nationalism is missing. It’s just simple that “WHEN THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY” but no one is showing will to resolve this issue. The necessary laws are to be made to punish the corrupt.

MELA AT UNIVERSITY.

Aj ka din mera bhut acha guzra q k aj meri uni mai mela tha hum sari friends nay mil kar stall lagaya tha jis mai hum nay mehndi,face painting,aur nail art rakha tha.Kuch khas paisay nai milay magar enjoy bhut kia shuru mai kuch log aye nail art aur face painting kar wany phr hum ne socha k chalo ab windup kar kay apni tafri kartay hain phr hum nay stall band kar diya.

Aur phr hum log apni tafrian karne lagay hum nay sub se pehlay jhola jhoola jis mai bhut maza aya aik bar kay paisay diye aur aik bar free m jhoola phr hum sub ground mai chalay gaye phr waha jakar dekha to larkian pagaloo ki tarha dance kar rahi thi phr hum logo bhi shuru hogai jo dance kia bs bhut bhut enjoy kia.Phr thora break dia aur lunch kia . Khane ko tu but kuch tha bhut sari variety thi magar hum logo ne chiness food khaya jo bilkul taste less tha bs paisay zaya hue phr hum ne saray stall check kiye aur phr ground mai chalay gaye aur pori class k sath dance kia uffffffffff bhut maza kia aj tou.Mela hum sub ne 3^rd year mai akr first time attend kia tha lakin acha experience raha .

Mai chati hun kay is tarha k aur bhi event honay chaiye hamari uni mai takay hum esi tarha enjoy kar sakay q k yeh life phr nai aye gi. Overall mela bhut acha tha aur har saal hona chaiye takay hum isi tarha apni uni life ko enjoy karay.

IS PARCHAM K SAYAI TALAI HUM............

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 IS PARCHAM K SAYAI TALAI  HUM………………..

Ek daur tha jb yeh kehna waqye mayinai rakhta tha k IS PARCHAM K SAYAI TALAI HUM EK HAIN  lekin  ab Agr mai yeh kahun k IS PARCHAM K SAYAI TALAI HUM 4 HAIN HUM 8 HAIN tou yeh galat na hoga q k hum ek (Pakistani) tou rahe nahi koi Punjabi hy tou koi Balochi  , koi  sarayiki hy  tou koi pathan  koi mahajir hy  tou koi sindhi wagera wagera

Hum ek ( Pakistani )kahan rahe yahan sb ko apna apna sooba chaye sub ka mutalba hy k mulk mai aur soobai hoon. Talk shows mai bhi dekho tou Punjab , Sindh ,N.W.F.P . Balochistan ki hakumatien  ek dusre pe ilzam tarashi karti nazar ati hy na k mil k ek Pakistani hone k natai maslo ka koi hul nikalti hy.

Hamarai mulk ko soobo ki zarurat ni bul k jo 4 soobai hain un ko hakumat ki tawaja ki zarorat hy  aur tamam sayastdano ko ek hone ki zarorat hai  agar yeh sab ek dusrai pe ilzam tarashi k bajaye ek hojayen tou mulk ko bohrano se asani se nikal saktai hain .

Hum  Pakistani hain zara sochye k Pakistan ka haal din ba din kia hota jarha hy  hum mai apas mai hi itifaq ni hum tarakki kia khak karenge agai barhne k liye itifaq hona ,ek hona bohat zarori hy.

Sirf sochne ki dair hy k HUM EK HAIN phr dekho yeh mulk kitna taraki karta hy….

what Science says about Happiness ??

Think and tell me when you laughed at last time ? and you find any problem than note it down its time to reduce your sadness , and to find the causes of happiness. this is a fact that we waste our time only to think that what problem we have actually ? someone ditch us, these are the things to made any person angry. we need to consider only ourselves , we have to prefer positiveness upon negativity.
                                        According to pshychatrist we need to find out the causes of unhappiness and note down in a diary so that we would better know what is need to be change?
                                        Every person has different way of thinking like someone is tensed due to bank balance , someone is worried about her job, someone due to unemployement/job, weight loss, and etc. let see what science says about happiness. here is a some tips through which we learn how to live happily ? ;)

1. Good Food: for good health we have to take good food whatever you want to eat cook and enjoy so that you feel happy :)
2. Sleeping is necessary: our body is like a machine and for living happy take a whole night sleep. according to bussines health foundation those persons who don't complete their sleeping hours can't feel fresh whole day. so it is necessary to complete your sleeping hours to live happy.
3. Take care of yourself: to be happy you need to take care of yourself instead of comparing yourself with the other ones. take out few minutes from ur busyiest schedule and do what ever you want to do in your leisure time like you can visit to your loved ones home, painting, listining music, and etc. which will definitly bring a change for you.
4. Exercise:  usually if we cant find the solution of problem we become depressive and to get off exercise is necessary because when we do exercise our mind is free from a "kimyai mawad" who helps us to feel fresh due to exercise our mind and soul feel fresh which is important for us.
5. Relationships:  according to scientists those persons who have friends and family and who share their matters with their friends and family never become a depressive man. around the world we have a lot of people who hurt intentionally or unintentionally but to forgive and to forget is the best example to be happy :)

                                 Remember in this cruel world no one is there to come and give you a happiness we have a key to get happiness by our ownselves so , unlock the lock and enter in the world of Happiness. :)

MY LAST BIRTHDAY PARTY............

   MY LAST BIRTHDAY PARTY     

Meri birthday jo hai  16^th november ko ati hai har saal meri birthday bhut hi achi tarha celeberate ki jati hai isi tarha meri last birthday m bhi mujhay surprise mila. Birthday se aik din pehlay tak sub ka behave esa tha jesay kisi ko kuch yad hi nahi hai aur mai ne bhi is baray mai koi bat ni ki q k mai dekhna chati thi k kis kis ko yad hai isi tarha wakt guzarta gaya aur 12 mai kuch hi minutes baki reh gaye thay.

Phr mera mood kharab hone laga aur mai jakr let gai phr mujhay ghar mai kuck shor ki awaz ane lagi to mai nay nikal kar bahar jane lagi to sari lights off thi phr mai jesay hi dinning room m ai wesay hi sari lights on hogai aur meray saray cousins aur pori family mojod thi aur aik dam wish karna shuru kar dia aur itna acha decorate kia hua tha aur sub se achi bat meri pasand ka cake bhi aya hua tha phr mai ne cake cut kia then cousins kay sath khoob tafri ki aik dosray p lagaya aur bhut maza kia gifts bhi milay bhut saray.

Yeh meri ab tak ki sub se achi birthday thi q kay is birthday p meray saray cousins thay canada and dubai walay aur un ki presence ne meri birthday ko aur special bana dia tha . Yeh hamari choti choti khushian hoti hain jin se hamay bhut khushi mil jati hai aur isi tarha is birthday p mujhay mili thi.

A TIP BY WHICH YOUR LIFE BECOME HEAVEN:

Aksr menay logon ko boltay hua suna hai k jesa hum sochtay hain wesa hota nai or jo humnay kbi nai socha hota wesa hmesha hota hai.

Hum jis chez pr b yakeen krnay lgtay hain woi chez humari zndagi mai ana shru hota hai missal k tor pr agr hum ye sochtay hain k humaray sath humesha bura hi hota hai tu phr waqai bura hi honay lgta hai agay zndagi mai or ye koi suni sunai bat nai blkay ye wo experiences hain jo meri zndagi mai hochukay hain.

Humay nai maloom hota khumaray subconscious mind mai kia kia baten apna ghar krai hain.Jin baton ko hum apni zndagi se nikalna chahtay hain aksr hum unhi chezon ka ziada zkr b kray hotay hain jo k humaray subconscious mind mai bethrai hoti hain or phir wo chez kbi hum apni zndagi se nikal nai patay blkay wo humari zndagi ka hissa hi bni rehti hain.

Hr bat k 2 pehlu hotay hain positive b or negative b.Ab ye hum pr or humari soch pr depend krta hai k hum konsa pehlu choose krtay hain.Hr bat ka pehlay positive point dekhna chayea isey humari soch hi positive hojati hai or zindagi k hr moqay pr chahay sakhtse sakht mushkilat hi kun a ho ap usmai b khush rahengay, un mushkilat mai b choti choti khushyan dhoondh kr nikal lengay.

Mai aksr kch logon ko notice krti thi k wo mushkil se mushkil wakt mai b muskuratay rehtay hain mgr ye nai samj pati thi k kesay.Ab sari baton ko jankr ye andaza hua k wolog isi trhan khush rehpatay hain.

Humesha positive sochen, choti choti baton mai khushyan dhondh kr unko jiyen or hr hal mai ALLAH ka shukr ada kren…

OUR MEDIA IS MAKING PAKISTAN A TOY:

                     Aj hum koi b Pakistani channel khol kr daikh len khas tor koi news channel tu humay ik hi chez nazar ati hai or wo hai apnay mulk pr criticism. Aksr aisa mehsos hota hai k humaray media ko koi dosra mulk support kraha hai. Humara media humara nai blkay ik tareka hai Pakistan ko criticize karne ka, yahan k logon ki choti choti ghaltyon ko b pahar bna kr paish krne krne, or hr us bat ko pori dunya tk pohchanay ka jisey Pakistan ki bdnami ho.

                     Agr bat Karen hum apne mulk k politicians ki tu is bat se koi inkar nai kraha k humara mulk jis b politician k hath laga hai usne sirif lotnay ki hi koshish ki hai mulk ko or media in logon ki is burai ko hr channel pr ochalne se pechay nai ht ta or ye kr k media ye samjta hai k human apna frz bakhubi ada krdia hai. Mgr ye kahan ka frz ada hona hai jbkay ismai ap apne hi mulk ko necha dekha rahay hain. Agar dekha jai tu media k is trhan krne se kia frk prjata hai siwai iskay k Pakistan ka tamasha bnta hai puri dunya mai or log hum pr hastay hain or dushman mumalik ko Pakistan pr ongli uthanay ka moqa mil jata hai jiski wo tak mai 24 ghntay tayar rehtay hain.

                      Kia media ki is criticizing se ajtk humaray ksi b politician ne apni ghaltiyan tasleem kr k unko theek kiya hai? Kbi nai. Or na ye bat shayad humara media chahta hai. Media tu chahta hai k politician hon ya aam awam wo bs koi na koi ghaltiyan krtay rahain takay unhay apna business brhanay ka moqa milta rahay chahay usmai hum apne mulk ko ik khilona hi ku na bnakr istamal Karen.

                      Media ne or humnay khud b apne mulk ko ik khilona bnakr rkh dia hai jsko hum khud gair mulkiyon k hawalay krtay hain k lo khelo humaray mulk se…

THE INCREASING LUST OF MOBILE PHONES

Nowadays mobile phones are becoming a fashion trend. As we all know that every coin has two sides similarly mobile phones also have merits and demerits but currently the demerits are more usual. Most of the people in our society want to have branded cell phones. People are wasting their money in buying expensive cell phones. The lust of mobile phones is increasing day by day and those are being purchased more than it gets stolen. Now people want those phones having each and every feature like internet, Facebook, Skype, Wi-Fi and a lot more so they can easily access to the world by one touch.

Moreover, if we talk about the networks so different companies are providing different packages having the same aim just to indulge people and divert them from their work.

Some years before mobile is considered as the necessity but now it is becoming a trend to have expensive mobile phones. Most people thought that they are become respectable only because of their showoff but their thinking is totally wrong. People are now addicted to it which leads our society towards destruction. Instead of paying taxes, electricity bills and other dues which are their responsibility but they preferred more to change their cell phones with the passage of time and advancements. It is also becoming common through media because 50% people of Pakistan adopt as it is they watched or either never thought that it is good or not for them.

10 WAYS TO BE HAPPY :))

If you have 10 reasons to be sad and depressed, there are 100 reasons to be happy. It all depends on the way you handle stress and problems. If you really want to be happy, you first need to make a conscious decision that you are going to be happy no matter what. There are numerous benefits of being happy – you will be healthier and have a positive outlook towards life and the circumstances.

Here are some ways to bring back the happiness in your life:

1. Stop trying to be perfect.

Don’t expect perfection from yourself or from anybody. You don’t need to impress people around you and you don’t have to get everything done perfectly. Remember

“Nobody in this world is perfect..So laugh hard and say I am nobody!

2. Be happy and satisfied with what you have.

Stop comparing with others at every stage, this will in fact add to your misery. Be happy and content with your life. Remove the feelings of jealousy and enemity. Enjoy what you have.

3. Schedule some time for yourself.

Give yourself one hour each day when you can truly relax and enjoy yourself. Do some exercise, work on a hobby, go for a walk, or read a book. Pamper yourself with some massages or beauty therapies apply “haldi chandan” on your face, it will do nothing but will give u a beautiful feelingJ. Meditate or pray to God. This will renew your energy and concentration.

4. If you are too stressed at work, take a break and refresh your energy.

Go for a holiday with your family and friends. Explore new places. Taking breaks helps your body recover the lost energy. You may take short or long breaks, depending on your work and stress levels. When you get back to work after a break, your concentration and focus improves a great deal and you are more motivated.

Enjoy bunking off work ( hope my teacher is not reading it!) J

5. Don’t be alone all the time.

Go out with your friends and talk to them on the phone regularly. Watch a movie, go shopping or do things that you always loved but did not get the time because of your busy schedules. Call your friends home and watch a funny movie together.

Pop some popcorn and watch a favorite movie. 

6. Enjoy writing.

 Write a letter (by hand) to a dear friend. Show your care and affection.

7. Be grateful to people around you.

Be thankful for even small favours and blessings.

8. Help Others.

It has been observed that helping others gives you immense satisfaction and happiness. Make someone’s life more beautiful by contributing in your own small way.

9. Re-assess your priorities.

Spend time with your family and pray to God. Stay in the present. Do not waste time regretting your past or worrying about the future.

10. Laugh out loud atleast once in a day and keep smiling.

Focus on things that keep you happy instead of those that keep you down. Forget your worries and pains, everybody in this world, has some problems. But it all depends on the way you deal with it.

And most importantly ENJOY LIFE .