WOMEN.....at torture

Khawateen par tashadud hamare moashare me jahalat k mojud hone ki numaya misal he.hamare moashare me orat ko hamesha mard se kam tar samjha jata raha he.usy itne haqoq kbi nni milte jitne ek mard ko milte hn,jo k sara sar galat he.
          Halanke dunya bhar me khawateen mard k shana bashana kam sar anjam derahi hen,lakin is usool ko man'ne k bajai asia me iski bar aks Pakistan, Hindustan,Afghanistan,Bangladesh wagaira me khawateen par tashadud aam he.orat ko hamesha agay barhny se rok dia jata he,bat bat par isy taney or tashadud ka samna karna parta he or isy chaar diwari me qaid kardia jata he k wo ghr ki hifazat kare bachon ko sambhale or apni khuahishat ka gala ghont dy.
          Islam or RASOOL ALLAH (s.a.w) ki taleemat is bat se momaniat karti hn lakin phr bhi hamare moashare me ye bemari kasarat se pai jati he.aksar akhbarat or khabaron me hum aisi khabaron se roz  dochaar hoty hn k ek orat ko tashadud kar k jaladia gaya,shohar ne jahaiz na lanen par biwi k hath paon kat dia, iske sath sath gharalo takrar, sas se na ban'na or olad ka na hona orat k lia tashadud ka bayis banta he.
         Isi tarhan hamare mulk me orat ko jahaiz na lane par tashadud ka nishana banane ki sharah to kam he lakin iske bar aks olad na hone par ya gharalo na chahki par shohar ka biwi pe tashadud ki sharah bht zada he.aisi tashadud zada oraten or ghar se bhagi hui khawateen k lia Eidhi center,Panah shelter,Darul aman,Silani welfair jaise idarey kaim hen jo in besahara orton ko panah dety hen.jaisa k islam me orat ka bht barah martaba kuck youn he.
                     " Maa k kadmon talay jannat he"

MAN IS THE ARCHITECT OF HIS OWN FATE!!!!!!

My uncle was a manager in a reputable Bank. His bank was quite far from his house. He has a bike but he would prefer travelling by bus. He had to change two buses to reach at his office which makes him unhappy and tried. Instead of buying a car to make his travelling easy he just resigned from his job. My family members tried a lot to convince him but he did not listen to anyone and left his job by saying that I will get another job easily. His pay was 65,000 Rupees but he did what he wants. Almost one year ago he left his job. Yesterday he visited at my place and he was saying that “KASH MAIN APNI JOB NAI CHORTA, MERA TOU NASEEB HE KHARAB HAI” then I realized that man can easily architect his fate by his own deeds. If something went wrong we just only blame our fate by saying that “HAMARA TOU NASEEB KHARAAB HAI OR NASEEB MAIN YEHE LIKHA THA” but we never thought that it is the outcome of our own actions.

This is a universal truth that is the architect of his own fate. Those who achieve success through self-efforts are really the architects of their fates. But on the other hand those who never perform any efforts and just wait for the others help always fail in their lives.

A man can reach the top of the ladder if he is sincere and hard worker. It’s not easy to attain the goals without any efforts. A person must have to fight against adverse circumstances then he will be able to achieve his destination. A person can easily change his fate if he has faith in his mission. He has to shape his own destiny. The famous saying “GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES” come nearer to this saying “MAN IS THE ARCHITECT OF HIS OWN FATE.”  Moreover, sometimes chance plays an important part in a man’s life and those who take benefits from these chances are the real heroes of our society. A man always keeps in mind the famous words of Shakespeare which are as follows:

“I AM MASTER OY OWN FATE,

I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY SOUL,

ACCORDING TO CONVENTIONAL WISDOM

WHAT FATE IMPOSES, THAT MAN NEEDS ABIDE,

IT BOOTS NOT TO RESIST BOTH WIND AND TIDE.

IMPORTANCE OF TEARS

The title may sound stupid, as tears are something which come along with pain and suffering. But still I believe that tears play a pivotal role in our life.

                How? Let me explain. If there is a particular place where there is plenty of water, the people living there will not release the importance of water. They will know that water is necessary for life. But they will not realize how important it is and will waste it. But in places where there are no rains, people will realize how important rains are. All I wanted to prove was that there are many things in life which we take for granted. Agony and pain make us realize how important they are.

                Well, what is a smile? Just a curve on the face, right? We do not like the little things in life. We always hope for those big and glittery things. Only when we go through a painful situation do we realize how worthwhile a smile is. It is then that we discover the actual worth of those happy moments.

                Only if we put in a lot of effort to get a particular thing do we realize the true worth of that thing. If we gain some thing without much pain, we would not appreciate it much. Its all about

                I am not saying all this because I enjoy love and pain. And neither am I saying all this because I have not suffered. Yes, I know how it feels when you have to suffer. I do know that sometimes you become helpless when the pain becomes unbearable. But, I realize that if our life is filled only with happiness, none of us would be happy over small things.

MY GREAT MOTHER..............

                          MY GREAT MOTHER

Maa wo hai jo ap ko paida karti hai. Aik acha insan banati hai itni sari pareshania utha kar apko bara karti hai rat din apka khayal rakhti hai khud bhooki so jati hai magar apne bachoo ka pait bharti hai. Lakin phr bhi aj k zamane m rahtay hue itni knowledge hotay hue bhi wo kesay bachay hain jo apni maa ka khayal nahi rakh saktay aur un ko apna bojh samajhtay hain aur na sambhal sakay to old house mai chor atay hain.

Aj kal kay logo ka saluk dekhti hun to apni maa say galay lag kar bhut rooti hun phr apni mama ki khoob khidmat karti hun.Wesay to mama se zada mai pappa se bhut close hun lakin mama k bagair bhi ik mint nahi raha jata kahi se aou aur mama na dekhay to pora ghar sir p utha lati hun mama kahi chali jae to bilkul nahi raha jata phr sub Kehtay hain k aik din to chalay jana hai ghar chor k jab shadi hogi tou phr mai bolti hun k esa dolha dhoodna meray lea jo ghar jamai banay ko tayar ho. 

Mama k sath bazar janay ka to bhut faida hota hai jo pasand ajae unhay dilana parh jata hai q k m shakal esi banati hun phir bhut pyar bhi ata hai mama pay k hamesha mujh p saray paisay kharch ho jatay hain. Mama har jaga bhaiyon se zada mera khayal rakhti hain.

Mai har bat mama se share karti hun tou dil ko sukoon mil jata hai ghar mai koi bhi tension ajae tou sub se zada mama ko fikar ho jati hai itni tension layti hain har bat ki fikar ab yah nai hai ab yaha jana hai ab wo arahay hain uffffff. Maa k baray mai tou jitna bola jae kam hai q k maa chez hi esi hai mama ki tou itni baten hain k mai batati rah jaogi . Bs allah se aik hi dua karti hun k hamesha meri maa ko sehat mand rakh aur unka aur mera sath hamesha isi tarha rahay wo hamesha isi tarha khush rahay q k mai apni mama se bhut bhut pyar karti hun aur i know ap sub bhi kartay hon gaye.

“The heart of the mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.”

                                          I LOVE MY MOTHER SOOOOOOO MUCH.

Apna Sapna Money Money

In this artificial world everyone's wants to be a millionaire through any sources either through their jobs or part time services. "Havis" of a person is increasing day by day and with this he is doing that sort of work which he/ she does not like personally or does not want to do but now running towards money is only their aim. there are many peoples around us who do not like some work but human heart is filled with different sort of desires and for the sake of that desires he/she must do that work in which he/she is not interested to do. In this materialistic world people running towards money earning money is not a bad thing but running toward money is a bad one. We have a number of examples out there.
 As i see on internet there is a plenty of sites which offers us to click on that link and become a millionaire. online jobs they offered even in news paper a lot of advertisements about earning money. "ghar bethe pese kamayen 25000 se 100,000 tak kamayen ". And due to all this things we are becoming greedy as we read in our schools "greed is curse" but today no one remember the proverb which is fact. and busy in our lives and in earning money. we all need actually from better to best so that we can control of our thirst of money.

A greedy person never gets satisfied in any stage of life and he always tried to get more and more so that he satisfied himself. we have read more stories about it.
But in this era the scenario has different everyone wants money in their life, in this materialistic world and just because of money money he forgot that which way is good and which way is bad for his.
To be millionaire is only their aim and for the sake of it he can do what ever he wants to do and whatever he does not want to do. so,
                                   "never be greedy be happy what ever you have"
              because in the end no single thing is remaining here "har cheez ko fana hai"
              but left only one thing which is that so called dream "apnaa sapna money money".  

MAIN AZAD HON MGR IK PINJRAY MAI:

Bachpn main mai apnay baron se suna krti thi k hum azad mulk mai rehtay hain, hum azad hain mai ye samjne lagi.

Jb mai school gait u meri mis muje prhati thi k humaray mulk ko14 august 1947 main azadi mli.uswakht b mai bari khushi khushi ye samjti thi k mai azad hon.

Phr jb mai college mai gait u meri teachers ye prhaya krti thi l QUAID-E-AZAM ne Pakistan ko bri jad-o-jehad se azad krwaya hai or unhi ki badolat hum aj azad mulk mai bethay hain.tu phr b muje lagne laga k han mai azad hon.

Phr ahista ahista chezain badlnay lagi or meri soch ki rahain or wasee hoti gai or menay sochna shru kia mukhtalif chezon k baray mai jo meray ird gird mojod thi tu kahen muje apni azadi parosi mulk ki rasmon k talay dapti hui dkhi tu kahen angraizon ki di hui kherat k majbor or uskay bharosay  k talay kochalti hui dkhai di azadi.

Phr muje mri zindagi k har morh pr mehsos honay laga k na sirif meray ird gird mojod log bulkay mai khud b mohtaj or majbor hon hr us chez ki jog air mulkiyon bnai v hain ya jo sirif dosray mumalik se hi hum tk frham hoti hain hain ku k aj k dor ka hr frd tkrebn itna brand conscious hogaya hai k agr apne mulk ki koi ashya or dosray mulk ki woi ashya samne rakhi jai tu 90% afrad gair mulki ahya ka tayon krengay.

Kia humay se ksi ne b aj tk is system ko change krnay ki koshish b ki hai?hum azad tu hain bazahir mgr mohtaj b unhi logon k hain jinhay hum apna dushmn kehtay hain.unkay isharon pr chaltay hain jinka bycott krnay ki sirif batain krtay hain hum tu kiya hum azad hain?

Han hum azad hain mgr ik pinjray main….

INFILATION

                  

Har dour ka eham masla mehangai raha he,

hamary mulk me din ba din mehangai barhti jarai he jo k kisi control me ni he is mehangai k sath sath berozgari,jahalat or jurm bhi barhty jarai hn.is mehangai se bachny k lia hamary no jawano ne chorian karna shoru kardi hn ,jin bachon k hathon me kitaben honi chahia thi taky wo parh likh k mulk ki zimadarian nibah saken.un hathon me pistol agai he jo jaga jaga logon se mobile,paisy or zewar cheen rai hn.phr ye bachay kaisy chalaenge mulk ko.

                     pehly b hamary mulk ko chor hi chala rai thy,hamary sadar sahab se berozgari tk to control hoti ni soney pe suhaga ab mulk me khurak ki killat bhi paida hogai he.atay or chini k lia log gharon se nikal kar sarkon pe agaye hn jahan qataron me laga kar logon ko khuar kia ja raha he aya kisi k pass itna dimag hoto wo iska istemal karty  hue in cheezon ko puri awam k lia sasta kardy na k sasty bazar n nam se logon ko khuar kary.                    

                    Ab bijli ka hal jo k kabi ati hi ni,sanaten band pari hn qeemti asason me b bjli ni he talibe ilm b pareshan hn or kon he jo is musibat se pareshan na ho.Ab taleem ka haljo k bht bura he,zardari sahab ne jo dawy kia thy wo sb jhooty nikly.Ab ap hi bataen k jis mulk k halat aisy hongy us mulk k nonihalon  ka kia hoga.
          "Mehangai karnay walay ghareebon ki ahon 
           aur khuda ki pakar se bach nai sakta"