MEDIA IS MAFIA

Media ek mafia he,or ye ek aisa mouzoh he jo kabi khatam ni hosakta,jb me isky bary me sochti hon to mery zehan me bht se khayalat ly ata he.par phr b mje is bat ko man'na parta he jaisy k roz marra ki zindgi me media awam ki zaati zindgi me mudakhlat karha he.jo k acha he ,agarcha wo ek had tak rahe magar media waly apni hadood me ni rehty.ya wo chahty nai hn k inko jan'na chahia k kamzor halat pe kis tarha kabu paya jai.
                     Me kisi siasi mouzoh pe bat ni karna chahti,mera asal maqsad mutaalay k masly par he jo k cheena jhapti ,aghwa barai tawan ,qatal wagaira he.Media ek aisa mahol paida kardeta he jo hamen jang ki surat me ly ata he.jb me ye dekhti hon to apny jazbat pe kabu nai rakh pati k agar hamary Media k pas itni takat or qowat mojud he to hamary mulk k halat behtar q nai hoty...? agar media apna kam sai tarhan se sar anjam dy to me yakeen k sath keh skti hn k hamary mulk or muasharay me jo sb kuch horaha he wo thek hojaiga .lakin afsos sirf ek bat ka he k hamary mulk ka media ,police se lekar sadar e Pakistan tak biki hui he.aisi suraty hal me hamary mulk k halat kabi behtar nai hoskty isi lia media mafia ka ek bht bara kirdar ada karta he
                 me apny mulk o qaum k halat ki behtri k lia dua e shair ki surat me dua karti hn 
               "kabhi na ai koi gham kareeb tmhary(pakistan)
                 jahan me sb se achy hon naseeb tmhary "
                                                                                 (ameeeeeeeeen)......

3 STAGES OF MY LIFE

   3 STAGES OF MY LIFE

Life aik toufa hai allah ki taraf se aur mujhay apni life se bhut pyar hai mujhay zindagi mai  wo sub kuch mila jo mai chati thi har khushi,pyar,izat,aur sub kuch.Jab mai paida hui to mai apnay ghar m sub se barhi thi aur yaha tak k apnay nanyal m bhi to mujhay har khushi mili aur bhut sara pyar yaha se meri life ka pehla stage shuru ho gaya tha phr jab mai 3 year ki hui to school jane ki omar hogai thi phr school m admission hogaya tha then started m school life yeh life meri zindagi k bhut hi khubsurat pal thay yaha m nay bhut enjoy kia parhai to thi thi magar us k sath sath bhut sara fun bachpan tha bhut sari galtia bhi hui is stage mai magar bhut kuch seekha bhi,teachers ki dant,kam na karne p punishment and etc. Aj tak mujhay wo life yad ati hai aur wo saray dost aur teachers.

Jb meri life ka dosra stage shuru hua to wo tha college. Yaha p mai nay bhut kuch realize karna shuru kia k log kitne selfish ho jate hain agay nikalne ki koshish mai har koi bs larne k lea tayar hojata hai aur han aik bat yeh k college k dost school ki tarha nai hotay yeh  to bs apna time pas karte hain hamare sath aur kam nikal wate hain yaha akr mai nay dekha k duniya m kya kuch horaha hai aur log kis had tak ja sakte hain aur hamare log kin kin cheezo ko adopt kar rahay hain. Any ways this is the very bad experience in college life aur yeh mujhay bilkul pasand ni ai aur sub se zada parhna bhi yahi para uffffff nahi bhul sakti m wo raato ka jag jag k parhna aur phr bhi paper ka out ana. Yaha akr esa laga jesay hamari life bs parhnay k lea hi bani hai aur is stage mai akr mai parhai se bore hogai thi.Is k khatam hone par mijhay phr josh utha parhne ka q k mujhay uni jane ka bhut shok hua karta tha.

Now the last stage but not the least. Yeh hai meri uni life school jesi achi to nai magar buri bhi nai yaha akr m mehsus karti hoon k mai bari hogai  hoon ab mai friends kay sath akelay ghoomne ja sakti hoon aur hum sub jate hain aur khoob tafri kartay hain thora dar bhi lagta hai q k halat ab esa nahi rahay lakin kya karay hamare yahi to tafri kay din hain ab. Uni mai sub kuch acha hai magar  thora dar lagta hai assignments say magar kher hai yaha  akr dobarha mujhay school ki yad agai usi tarha k achay dost mil gaye mera sara group bhut acha hai ,teachers bhut cooperative hain. Is stage p akr lagta hai k parhai itne bhi mushkil nai agar hum is ko enjoy kar k parhay to is stage p atay atay zindagi se bhut kuch paya aur khuya. Yaha tak kay stages ki kife mai to sirf parha hi hai ab tak agay to bhut kuch baki hai yeh to student life thi guzar gai hanstay kheltay ab professional life ki bari hai is mai kuch kar k dekhana hai aur apni life ko behtar banana hai takay hamare parents ko bhi hum p garv ho aur un ka sir fakhar se uth jae .

Yeh thay meri life k 3 educational stages jis mai bhut enjoy kia mai nay.

LOVE IS LIFE AND LIFE IS GOLD.

PAKISTAN NEVER FEELS THE TOUCH OF DEMOCRACY

We are living in a so called Democratic state. In simple words democracy means the rule of the people in the country, there has been government of the landlords and Sardars, by them and for them. Can the people who lives in palaces, understand the miseries and sufferings of the people??? I think they can’t understand it….

 In Pakistan democracy is just the game of power. To rule is necessary in Pakistan rather than to serve the nation. The political parties made untruthful promises before elections of giving individual rights, freedom, peace, fair elections etc. but after elections these parties forgot all promises and play the game of democracy for their own benefits.

For running a true democracy the necessary values are mutual good will, respect, sense of compromise, tolerance and cooperation… but unfortunately all these virtues are missing in Pakistan.

Western countries are progressing day by day the reason behind this is that either they have dictatorship or democracy they frame it in a positive manner. They not only providing human rights as its best level but also planned rights for the animals of their own country… one question arises in my mind and I feel sorry to say that  “ KIA AB HUM JANWARON SE BHE BADTAR HOGAYE HAIN JOU HUMEN HAMARE RIGHTS NAHI DIYE JATE?????”

The current democratic government came up with the slogan of “ROTI, KAPRA AUR MAKKAAN” …. But instead of fulfilling this slogan they are shutting all facilities from the people of this country one by one.

In the name of democracy there is only corruption and mismanagement which is arising at each and every department which id affecting our nation severely.  The Pakistani people are just to tolerate the miseries only….

Pakistan badly needs a true ruler who not only loves the nation but also take steps for the welfare of the people of Pakistan……

unnecessary money spendings

yesterday it was morning time when i was going to office in chinchi rickshaw i saw a man who wanted to go "drig road" asked to the driver that how much money will he charge to take him to the drig road. only rupees 10/= said driver. the passenger checked his jacket and he saw only 5 rupees in his pant pocket he was feeling ashamed at that time that he don't have enough money to travel in the chin chi. his eyes were full of tears at that time. the driver was in hurry or what i don't know but he allowed to that passenger to sit in the chin chi i will drop you no matters how much money you have?. after that i saw his eyes were like smiling he was felling happy that due to this chinchi he can reach to the exact place. at that time i was feeling very bad as this is not a big thing for any human nature but we don't think that we spend so much money on our accessories we always demand branded cloths, watches, or what ever we want in life. we are spendthrifts we don't think that money which we are spending on such useless things does not matter. the value of money knows only those who don't have money.
once a great philosopher said:
                                       "empty pockets teach you million things in life but full pockets spoils you in a million ways ".
and this is so right full pockets spoils us we have so many examples of it like we can see in shadi halls that how peoples waste food items, in parties we want branded cloths such as Gul Ahmed so that we can compete with the society, we can move in the society without this we are nothing. we have forget the message of ALLAH who said openly in QURAN:
                 "fuzul kharch shetan ka bhai hai".
but we had forgot this message and living our life but but but the fact which is always remain the same that what ever we do in our life, how much money we spend we just have to remember that everyone returns back to ALLAH in 2 gaz "kafan" which is not branded and same for all. 

THE SUDDEN DEMISE

...And she passed away peacefully yet suddenly, after her tedious stay in this life.  When she breathed her last, my mom and I were there, reciting 'SURAH YASEEN' in front of her, she still cries whenever she remembers it! My family and I will always remember her. I still continue to crave for Nani maa’s love as all of mine are no more. Whenever anyone talks about their grand maternal parents; it hurts to know that someone you deeply love ceases to exist.

           My Nani maa was slow to think and do other things, but yet so fast to cry and love. Children (their pota poti) would irritate her to the maximum, yet she bore everything with great patience. I have never seen anyone else being so patient.

            We were shocked when she left us. It was much unexpected. Sometimes I wish I’d known this some way and I could have spent more time with her. But it was heart breaking all the same. I wish I hadn’t had to go to university but everyone was very sympathizing there as well.

            Her laughter still rings in my ears. Her cute little round belly shook as she laughed. Her tall tales and non-stop chit-chatting makes her an unforgettable memory. Oh! How I wish she were here with me. How I wish I could cuddle her like a teddy-bear. Her tears, her laughter and her stories will always remain as the deepest shadows in my life. But alas, nani maa always showered me and Farah (the childhood friend & a cousin of mine) with her blessings “Allah tum donon ki joori salamat rakhay” as these were her last words of our last meeting and to go on ahead in life, strong and determined, never to be defeated.

            I have learnt many things after the death of my beloved Nani jaan. First of all is life is so short and will never give you a chance when you'll be at the last breath. Show your love and care to those whom you don’t want to lose. No one can remember you after death but your good deeds and behavior will remain alive in everybody’s heart!

            In the end, I want u people to read fatiha for her isaal-e-sawab.

MAY ALLAH REST HER SOUL IN PEACE.  AMEEN.

EK BOMB BLAST ESA BHI....

EK BOMB BLAST ESA BHI…

Bomb blast hum pakistanio k liye naya lafz nahin bomb blast hona hamarai mulk mai ek aam baat hu chuki hai blast howa itne afraad jahan behak itne zakhmi yeh news mai dekhna aur parhna  bohat asaan hai  mgr in bomb blast ki shidat wohi jantai hain jin kai pyare in bomb blast mai apni jaan gawa detai hain .Lahore mai 7nth December 2009 ko moon market  mai 2 khatarnak bomb blast howe  jisme bohat se afraad zakhmi aur  jahan behak howe thai jahan behak afraad mai mere cousin mamu aur unka  3 saal ka beta bhi shamil tha  jab kai un ki biwi aur beti zakhmi howe thy  jab news dekhi kai moon market mai blast howa  tou mamu se contact ki bohat koshish ki magar rabta na hoska  tha  mere cousins jab moon market ponchai tou wahan ajib afra tafri thi  jis jis hospital sheikh zayid , miyun , service ,Jinnah hospital mai zakhmi  afraad ko poncaya tha wahan gaye tou mami aur unki beti behosh halat mai mile    jab kai  cousin mamu ka kuch pata na chala phir Jinnah hospital mai  un ki laash mili laash puri tarah jhulas chuki thi un kai betai kai bs kapro kai chnd tukrai mile jis pe jism kai azaaa chipkai howe thai is waqye kai baad Imraan Khan ne un kai ghar ka dura kiya aur kuch rakam bhi di magar pese jaan ka rado badal nhi na hi yeh pese sari zindagi chala saktai hain hum yeh parh kar afsoos kar lete magr aj jab un kai ghar walo ki halat dekhti hun khasusan unki biwi aur maa tou pata chalta hy k unki dunia kitni ujar chuki  jaan ki hifazat hmara haq hy  magar aj hr Pakistani darta hy k na janau kub kahan bomb blast  ho jaye .

DRUGS became a fashion....

          In a community,there are both individual and social problems.when individual problems effect a large number of people,they become social problems.one of the present day social problem is drug addiction.

        Each and every thing is based on its use.people are moving more towards the bad aspects,people who are far from these aspects  are considered as mummy daddy children in the present days. 

        As we know that drug is a curse. but drug are used as fashion. usage of drug become higher day by day.drugs mostly used in parties,and become a common factor in all upper class society.

Drugs have been used for medical purpose since time immemorial.but these days drugs narcotics are being used freely by the people all over the world.the number of people using cocaine, chars,sedatives, garde,alcohol and many other narcotics has surpassed all dimensions. that's why the abuse of drug has become an international problem. 

In Pakistan their number has been increasing in drug especially in youngsters. 

              It cripple the addicts mental and cause painful for him and for his family.

              Our government has taken steps to check the abuse of drugs provides medical treatment for the addicts. many kinds of  treatments been set up by they are insufficient. many centres have been set up for the addiction of drug abuses such as (aftab medical) in Karachi and (nasha choro) in peshawar.we educate people about the abuse of drugs through various purposeful means of communication. 

ALL CURSE TO MEN

            Ayesha had been complaining about the ascendancy of men in society. “I feel that this world belongs to man”, she said. Basit replied, “To be honest, this is indeed men’s world and women should stay inside chaar deewari.”

            I was amused at his comment and thought perhaps he didn’t know abut the freedom and liberty our modern and allegedly men-dominated society had given to women. I thought of increasing number of working women; women are doctors, TV anchors and even pilots. It seems that they will outdo (or equal at least) men in every field. They are doing what they have never done before. (Veena had not “set her example” at that time or I would have thought about her too).

It has been about one year since that chat between my friends and my conversation with myself took place. Ever since, I have tried to observe freedom of women more deliberately. I recently came to know a real-life experience which, I am sure, would prove my dear friend Basit wrong.

This experience I learnt from a friend of mine who is a part-time home tutor. He was provided the contact for a home tuition near Federal B Area block 16. The student was a 19 year old girl, willing to continue her studies after three years of her matric. She had had to quit her studies in order to support her five-members family after her father’s death.

She works in a telecommunication company’s franchise located in Saddar. Astonished at the distance of her workplace form her home, my friend inquired of the reasons that took the girl to Saddar franchise despite of ones near her residence. She told him that she had been working at a franchise near her home. Some local boys (of her flat building) started visiting quite frequently – of course for their genuine queries. Obviously she was hired to satisfy the customers. For no apparent reason she could have refused to attend them. Highly inspired by this decency of the boys, she had to get herself transferred to a far-off area where she now commutes by bus – daily with a great convenience.

She also told that she was the only girl among all other male workers at the franchise. She said that she had to act and speak very carefully so as not to give any expression of her favors to a particular co-worker. Besides this, she also has to maintain a tone humble enough that does not declare her a Miss Attitude.

Listening to my friend, I was laughing at Basit in my heart. I imagined the sense of security which the girl would have at her workplace. I envisioned her travelling in a bus full of penetrating eyes and envied her feeling of comfort. I thought about the appreciation she would be receiving from her neighborhood for staying alone in an all-men-working environment.

Yes Mr. Basit, our women are free! Free to be harassed at workplace through ambiguous language, free to be x-rayed through naked eyes (as if they are wearing nothing), free to be fondled in buses, free to be offered lifts by unknown motorists at bus stops, free to be abused by their relatives, free to be hooted on, free to be the subject of gossips, free to be considered a WHORE!

I have numerous such experiences to share but that will embarrass my dear friend which I don’t want him to be.

NB, ALL FIVE FINGERS ARE NOT SAME, and same like that... "ALL MEN ARE NOT SAME"...

PROBLEM OF KARACHI

TRAFFIC HAZZARDS IN KARACHI .............Karachi is the biggest city of pakistanand included as the top most econamical cities in the world . It has under go through many historical , political, social and economical crises.In the past, the city was pleasant with hope and optimism, but when the population of the city grew it created thousands of unmanageble problems. Karachi has now become the city of problem.      City of light become darker day by day. Problems of basic need are concerned with the city. One of the biggest problem is " traffic problem" the city of karachi is always under the process of extention and construction. Transport is one of them . Majority of people in Karachi travel in buses and mini buses , the no of buses and mini buses in Karachi has increased in the recent year but as compared to the need of population they are still very small.                                                                                                                      The most annoying feature of the transport system in karachi is the rude behaviour of bus conductors and of rickshaws and taxi trivers. The trafficin karachi is one beyond control. Due to reckless driving thousands of lives are lost every year. The main reason is the speed of young bike ridders who never care about their as well as the lives of others. Losts of kids and ladies  become the victim of these people every year.Pedestrians find it difficult to walk freely on roads, traffic rules are openly violated.                                                                                                                                                               One day i can see the bus driver drive in very speed and they can doge one another and after a few seconds  they hit a one motor bike and the man is death. It is very horrible time of my life when i see the accident. It was my first fearful experience and i was totally out of my senses and i can pray to GOD that these moment not come again in my life.When i came back to home i think that if i become a journalist then diffinately i attempt a case  on that person which can killed a innocent persons life just because of fast driving or dogging.I can pray to god to give a sense to all the in manner people and you can save all the precious lifes. LOVE IS LIVE AND LIVE IS GOLD. So we all take care of our lifes because it is gifted by a GOD.                                                                                                      

HOPE IS THE BALM OF LIFE

“The miserable have no other medicine, but only hope.” {Shakespeare}

Last night I was reading a news story about an educated man who attempts suicide due to unemployment and poverty. That man was a hopeless person and beside hope for the betterment he had adopted a sin and lost his life. The factor of hope is very necessary. Nobody knows what is in reserve for him in future. Things do not always turn up as we wish. We wish for many things and it is the magic of hope that keeps us travelling hopefully.

It is true that hope acts as a balm or medicine in all our difficulties of life. We live in the present, think over the past and hope for the future. God has kept the future hidden from us. Without hope it is very difficult for a person to lead his life peacefully.

Hope is the greatest blessing of life. Life is full of colors and shades, failures and success, fear and hope. Hope is more rational and reliable. We plan for the future but future is always unclear. It is only the hope that helps us to accomplish our goals in a positive manner.

As life is the greatest gift of God. We must not run away from it but we must have to face it. The persons who only see the dark side of life always remain unhappy and unsatisfied but on the other hand those who always look at the brighter side of life spend their life happily and courageously. That kind of person always hopes for the best and work hard for the better outcome. All our noble and high aims are dependent on the future for their fulfillment. It is the hope of attainment that keeps us alive.

For the poor and handicapped hope is the best medicine. They live on hope and keep faith in God. Hopeless people attempt suicides which is becoming usual day by day. Hope acts as a key to success. Hope provides courage to face our life. It is like light in the darkness of future.

So always hope for the best!!!!

"Hamare zamane main...."

Google, facebook, cell phone, Skype, ATMs, credit cards, T.V., etc… I am wondering how my life would have been without these things? It struck to my mind when I was googling to prepare my assignment and got irritate of searching, when ammi said: “Hamare  zamane me hum research k liye shehar bhar ki libraries ghoomte thay, aaj kal k bachon ko internet ne sust krdia hai”. This is not first time I listen to this kind of comment, I often hear these things while using mobile phone, facebook, etc. Usually these remarks seems annoying, but these are not wrong if we think about it rationally.

Thousands of details are there on a single topic just one click away. How difficult it would be to go through number of libraries for research. And because of this, reading habit and devotion is getting low in our young generation.

I used to hear similar remarks when I use cell phone. “Hamare zamane me rishtadaaron ki khabar itne dinon me telegram se milti thi, phir bhi sukoon tha aur ab yeh mobile phones asaani kam aur mushkil ziada hai”. The life was contented in spite of no phones at that time. The balanced use is very rarely seen in our society, especially in young generation who stick to their phones on texting and calls blindly.

Moreover, I am sure most of the people hear from their oldies, while watching T.V, “Hamare zamane me aik ghanta news ati thi aur T.V bund hojata tha, aaj kal ki nasal ka time tou pora din sports aur dramay”. Our T.V cannot turn off even for a single day, we are addicted to it very badly. Our most of the day go waste on fruitless morning shows, talk shows and dramas.

Furthermore, we repeatedly hear that “hamare waqt me mushkilat ziada honay k bawajood sukoon tha, rishton ki qadar thi, kyun k farigh waqt ghar walon k sath guzarte thay, aaj ki zindagi masnoi(artificial) hai”.  If we seriously ponder over this point, this is absolutely no wrong. It would not be incorrect if we understand that our life has become artificial. When we feel bored, we spend our time on facebook, cell phones etc., but less interested to use up our little time with family. We are less concerned about watering our own garden and feeding our fishes, but very anxious about watering our farms and feeding fishes on facebook. This is how our life becomes artificial because of over use of technology, which creates gap in real world.

Are we availing the benefits of advancements or its extra usage is dragging us away from reality? The choice is ours! We should better know which thing should use in which way and to what extent.

Why I Love Face booking

"Facebook" now a days it's so popular among all the generations no matters it is use by oldies or a kiddies. it is a social networking service as we all know through this site we all are easy to interact with family and friends. as there are so many sites through which we can chat or calling easily but why i love face booking because:

•  It has a number of "Mind Jolt" games which shows that still we are living our child hood we are back in a form, in that times when we used to play Mario and snooker, car racing etc. howzatt cricket and  castleville is so popular in youngsters when i log in to Facebook i always see that few of my friends are asking for "be my neighbors" and i always say that i am not interested in such games plz stop sending me request.
•  Face book allows many users / friends to join in one group for chat for interact with each other. 
• Fun tagging is also a part of fun through this we can laugh at least because due to tensions and problems it is very hard to laugh. fun tagging is a part of this site which make us feel that yes we are alive and keep your tensions aside.
• My most favorite thing is to update a status and to inform my family and friends about happenings and whereabouts. due to updating my status and commenting with in a seconds on anyone's status my teachers say that i am so active on Facebook :P 
•  uploading pics is one my favorite work on Facebook where my family and friends who live in abroad can see me and my family in pics just because of this fast furious social network.
• one most important thing which i really want to thank Facebook is it reminds me birthdays of my beloved family because i have a very bad habit of forgetting birthday so Facebook is a good reminder for me. 
• Facebook is becoming so advanced as it is announced video calling like skype if skype is not working use facebook video calling which is so much easy. and facebook messages i really like when i need to talk anyone i send him/her a facebook offline msg so that i can easily talk abroad. 

                                          Peoples ask me why i use facebook it is so annoying it is getting bore day by day for those people i must say that facebook is a site where we can easily communicate and interact with each other play games, join groups and different sites around the world. so, 

                        "Keep update your status, do commenting and enjoy Face booking". 

as i do. :) 

EXPERIENCES MAKE US COURAGEOUS

                        Last Friday when I was going back to my home as usual by bus, two men were suddenly came into bus and start shouting then one of them quickly enter in women department, load his gun and put it on bus conductor’s head. At that time I realized that they are not common, they are bandits. That was that unexpected moment which came into my life for the very first time, when I was totally helpless and breathless felt that there is no one to escape me from them but ALLAH obviously and then I was start reciting QURANIC VERSES. Then immediately these bandits were begun to collect all valuable and precious things from all passengers, their money, and their cell phones also.

                       All girls including me was expecting and waiting for that moment which we didn’t want it to come and it was that unwanted moment when they will start to collect our cell phones n accessories. But suddenly bus conductor cried on them and begged to stop this and left us then they rushed out from bus without taking anything from women. ALHUMDULILAH.

                      It was my first that kind of fearful experience and I was totally out of my senses in these 6 to 7 minutes but meanwhile it gave me a little bravery too.

                     Although it was really a bad experience and I don’t want those moments to come into my life again. Not only in my life but also not in anyone’s life.

                      Either experiences are good or bad, it left something behind them .with the help of these experiences, we came to know that how to face and react in different conditions or in different circumstances, they prepared us to handle those things which we have to face in our life.

                      Here, I am not giving you any type of suggestion that you have to experience these moments but I just want to say that experiences makes us courageous, brave and confident, either it is a good or a bad experience.

WE SHOULD GIVE RESPECT TO AZAAN

 

WE  SHOULD  GIVE  RESPECT TO AZAAN.

Azaan is an alarm to alert Muslims to offer Namaz.I have seen many people who dont  give respect to Azaan.Whenever the people are watching their favourite program and Azaan is called out they dont mute the program .

When they asked why you are not turning of the program voice they reply it is not a song , people are talking in a program. 

I just want to say that people who don’t  respect  Azaan  please, at Azaan time  leave your all work, listen Azaan respectfully and carefully and reply the azaan.

To reply with the words of azaan is Mustahab  .The method of doing this , is to repeat after the Mu,azzin  words of Azaan .

When Azaan is called out  anyone who is talking should stop. Even if a person is reciting the Quran he should stop and answer the Azaan. Even when walking on the street , one should stop and give answer to the Azaan when it is heard. If you are living in an area where you are able to listen Azaan various time you should give answer the first Azaan that you hear.  

We live in a modern in a modern society and spending our life in a modern way  We  forget our religious duty . Don’t forget we are Muslims .We should respect Azaan.

What you choose Fashion or Vulgarity ......?

Fashion is a popular style, especially in clothing, foot wear, or accessories. Fashion references to anything that is the current trend in look and dress up of a person. The prevailing style in behavior as well.

We watch a show in which you see extreme outfits in the negative sense of the word rather than being creative, we point out the fact that "it's vulgar!"

(the condition of being vulgar; lack of good manners, Something, such as an act or expression, that offends good taste or propriety)

Now a days  Fashion has been changing so much and people are capturing western culture and don't even look that what are the Dos and Don'ts   according to the culture, living life style society and the impact on society. Fashion Industries are merely copied each and every thing of the west world, even Fashion shows have the same pattern like western world have in spite looking into the culture  society.

Pakistani Fashion Show

Today vulgarity and all its ingredients have become a common place even among well-known Muslims in the zeal of imitating the disbelievers. It is these people who have been struggling to bring Muslim women out of Hijab into immodesty and indecency.

How many of the parents would go and watch movies and countless numbers of kissing scenes of actor and actress. In some films, the rape or bedroom scenes look so realistic that they can’t be watched with family members without feeling embarrassment. This is just another kind of vulgarity in society. Now this is counting as Fashion or trends changing in our culture people take it at ease and pretend and act like to be fashionable. 

I believe in the freedom of speech, freedom of expression, freedom of media, gender equality and freedom of being given equal opportunities but here I give a pause and go back into time when the whole family including Mom, dad, sons, daughters, cousins etc. used to sit together and watch the TV programs and enjoyed much to their satisfaction. A slight contact between a male and female character in a TV program or movie was considered a huge and unexpected event. But now what to speak of the movies or dramas, even the commercials are not worthwhile to be seen together by a family who believes in fundamental social ethics.

We are Muslims and we can not deny it and we have to have a balance between extremism and fundamentalism. I must say that if we fail now to have a balance between the freedom and unrestricted freedom we are certainly inclined to step towards a bigger catastrophe.

Ending my opinion with a real case as if one women feel like this why won't the whole women society.

Real Life Story-

So I was given a very expensive dress today as a gift by a muslim family... it was a sleeveless shirt with Capri trousers and designed to show cleavage .. the aunti insisted I wear the shirt and show it to them .. 




The fact is , I hated it ... and upon their insistence I told them most humbly that I will not be wearing it , because I very much care for my modesty and refrain from the skin show... 


and i was given a huge lecture from all the girls that fashion is fashion, if i can wear suits to work and trousers and jeans , I should have no issues wearing sleeveless and Capri or even dresses that show cleavage ... 


I was shocked .. cant these pathetic fashion followers see the difference between clothes and nudity? why do we Muslims not realize that we are not malika shirawat !!!


Fashion what i believe at its best..........

EXAMS IN THE MID OF SEMESTER

During the middle of each semester student must give a mid term exams in order to get marks which will included in terminal, this exams is to judge or test student on the material covered during first two months. The mid term taken in our university JUW in the middle of each semester, which carry 20 marks so mid term dates were given in the syllabus. You can have all types of question on an exams i.e multiple choice, articles, and true false etc.                                                                                           They turned curricular activities into extra-curricular and when they realize that exams like mid term exams are at the corner it was much too late. Thanks GOD this was not the case for me through like all other girls. I had to better loud the law and order situation which often deprived me irregular from being a regular student and worst the load shedding and thecircumstances.                     Sometime it is very difficult for us to manage and gave equal time to every subject if specially you have two test scheduled in one day. During this period every girl trying their best, to perform good and take good marks in this mid term. For this we must sleep well and take nutrition because it is very good for our health and important factor in keeping our mind and body alert!

YOU LAST TILL THE BLAST

In Pakistan bomb blasting is usual and become highly destructive phenomena in recent years. Bomb blasts in Pakistan are increasing day by day which leads our country downwards. These blasts are also affecting our nation on as well as our identity.

As we all know that bomb blasts have many types like remote control bombs, suicide attacks, anti-vehicle explosive attacks, projected charge attacks etc. and I feel sorry to say that these are all common in Pakistan. No one knows who is responsible for these blasts either no attention would be paid for legal punishment s. No one has the right to ask the question that who is responsible for it we simply just have to bear the pain only…..

The losses of lives in these blasts are uncountable, the massive destruction is unbearable and people are becoming frightened day by day. After bomb blasts money will be given to the families of the victims who had lost their lives…. Can money has the power to replace the grief and sorrows of the families………………????? According to my opinion it cannot…… We never cash the feelings of anyone at any cost.

Nowadays the attackers had moved their target towards educational institutes like universities, colleges, schools etc. Beside this religious places are not even safe for religious practices.

No one knows the people who are behind those severe attacks either it is the lack of concerned authorities or a war of terrorism……… The loss of lives is becoming common day by day.

We just only hope for the peace betterment but several measures must be taken to stop such bomb blasts so a man can feel safe in his own country and he never feels ashamed to be a Pakistani………………………

vulgarity and sexuality in media

In the last ten years media has more vulgar and sexual as compared to last decade. when radio and news paper became popular, when vulgar songs, movies and sexual videos were censored but today some of the top played songs contain lyrics that are so vulgar and sexual like munni badnam hui , sheila ki jawani and oh la la ab me jawan hogai. media basically promotes that type of songs and these songs become so popular among the young generation. the best example of it when we arrange some party or any other gathering kids and even young generation start dancing on these type of vulgar songs. i have a list of vulgar movies that are going to released very soon and in last ten years i saw a promo of vulgar movies just like"raaz", "race" "the dirty picture" and so many. These movies are not family movies where we sit altogether and start watching.    Here are so many advertisement with vulgar titles and discussing sex tips on it. some popular shows casually discuss about the subject of sex but some discuss it without any hesitation. Either its an internet or a bill board vulgarity rate is increasing day by day in our young generation. Our young generation knows more about it. Nasty jokes is also common in youngsters they discuss it openly infront of their friends and family. use of abusive language is increasing now a days the best example of it is youtube where we found every type of language what is this ? donot you think our media is exploited us ? and these things are exploited all over the media ? these things diverting our youth and exploited our society but rule of censorship is so relaxed today which is not be acceptable it's all need to be controlled ! 

WHY WE CRITICISE??

                                   

     Criticizing someone is becoming more common among us. Why we always walk over somebody. Ridicule or insult other, with reason or without any reason. Because we love it! Simple! It is hard to endure to start our day without passing few comments about others, actually criticizing someone is like breakfast, it gives us pleasure, and inner satisfaction. This is WHO WE ARE!!! Sad but so0o true!

     I have even noticed the jealousy element among us, it is so difficult for us to applause any good work but to criticize someone is considered are moral duty. Who has given us the right to criticize?? In fact we ourselves are dark! Here I must quote the line of MARK TWAIN” one mustn’t criticize other people on grounds where he can’t stand perpendicular himself”

     We sometimes misunderstand the good intentions of others .Neither we can change the things nor we can change others thinking, every individual has his own unique style and every individual is different from another. This quality makes every human special

“If you have no will to change it...You have no right to criticize it”

     All I can sum up is “to live and let live”, live your life in your own way don’t criticize, everyone has a right to lead his life in his own way. Actually we have to work on ourselves. In fact I am writing this, to criticize some specific people. The process never ends until we clean our hearts.

Dil paak nahin to paak hosakta nahin insaan

Warna iblees ko bhi atay thay wazu k farayez bohot

-Allama Iqbal

A Tough Competition

I had been to a marriage ceremony in one of my relatives yesterday. The reception looked as if I came to a flower exhibition. When I get in the hall, there were dozens of chandelier and dozens of air conditioner. The numbers of paintings hanging on the walls made me think if I were in an art gallery. I was lost in the ostentation of the hall when I came to the rent of the hall is 10lakh.

I was taken aback when I hear about the rent. I was wondering how many difficulties we create with our own life. We are entrapped by self created problems. People don’t marry without loads and loads of Jahez, kilos and kilos of gold, feel ashamed without having expensive venue. This is from where competition begins.

This creates complex among those who can’t afford much. I often observe that people count the number and worth of dresses and furniture others give to their daughters. To save the honor in society, they are forced to spend in access on the marriage.

But to be sensible, it would far better to give the money we spend in extra ordinary ostentation, to those who can’t afford the marriage expenses of a single daughter.

Today, we have to think this through, and kill this trend once for all. We can ease our life if we value our relations more than showing off. Our most of the problems will be over if we think simple and try not to compete through money.

WHO ARE THE LEADERS OF OUR OPINIONS?

                       Surely, we all know that opinions are made in our minds but we don't have any idea that who are the real leaders of these opinions? Who are controlling our mind? Mostly by the help of these opinions, we are taking our decisions in all aspects of our life.

                       Our observations and inspirations are the leaders of our opinion in reality. Human mind is travelling all the time from one object to another and observe them in order to broaden his mind, to fill up and gather new thoughts and opinions about things which are present in his surroundings. It is a natural aspect of us that the only thing which matters us is what we are watching, it doesn't matter that what is the truth behind that particular thing and what are the hidden facts of that object. We see something and immediately make an opinion and will go through with that opinion. It will bring a big change in our personality also. Then our opinions and observations came in our life and even we don't have any idea about these new variations and changes in us because they are spreading gradually in ourselves.
                      I think, I am not wrong if  I will give this example that most of our housewives are in love with Indian dramas, these dramas are the only remedy of their relaxation after a long day, they provides them a breath to live. They watch these serials regularly and consider them an important and necessary part of their life. They inspired by these dramas and by their artificial way of living, glamour and high status which shown in them and then promote these stuff in their personal life also. Then Indian dressing, their language, their cultures are going to reach in their roots and finally they are giving opinions and their views with respect to these Indian acts.
                     So observe things but make sure that it is going to enhance your mind in a good and better way because observations and inspiration are the real leaders of our mind.

HIJAB IS A BLESSING OR A BURDEN FOR PAKISTANI GIRLS.

HIJAB IS A BLESSING OR A BURDEN FOR PAKISTANI GIRLS.

Women all around the world are identified through different outfits they wear.Indian women  identify by her sari,British women by her maxi,gloves,&hat and Pakistani women by her shalwaar kamiz and duppata & would not be wrong if we call Hijab is the identification of Muslims women. Hijab was a wear design in order to hide a women,s complete body part women must cover her all body part except face and hands women should guarding their private part & avoiding to showing off it.Hijab was regularly born by the noble ladies of Islam like Bibi fatima,Hazrat khatija,Bibi zainub a.s .Even in our "HOLY QURAN " Muslims women are advised on different  occassions  to practice Hijab .Although there are many benifits of  wearing Hijab now a days it is mostly become just a fashion trend & Hijab is become a part of fashion.Their is variety of headscarfs and abayas available in market .Now a days most of the Muslims women wear hijab not only because of religious obligation but also because of fashion trend.Even if a girl is asked to wear Hijab as religious obligation in pakistan so she would deny it basic reason of refusal is the influence of Western fashion  & Indian culture on immuature mind of Pakistani girls.Most girls take Hijab as a burden where as in actual it is a blessing.

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Benazir Bhutto , 1953-2007, prime minister of Pakistan (1988-90; 1993-96), daughter of Zulfikar Ali Bhutto . Educated at Radcliffe and Oxford, she returned to Pakistan shortly before her father was overthrown by General Zia ul-Haq in 1977. Under detention and then in exile, she returned in 1986 to lead the Pakistan People's party (PPP) and to fight military rule. In Nov., 1988, three months after President Zia ul-Haq died in a plane crash, Bhutto's alliance gained a narrow majority in parliamentary elections, and she became prime minister, the first female leader of a Muslim nation. Her government, marked by continuous intrigue and able to accomplish little, was dismissed by President Gulam Ishaq Khan in Aug., 1990. He accused her, her husband, Asif Ali Zadari, and her party of corruption. Zadari was held (1990-93) on various charges, although eventually acquitted, and the PPP lost the late 1990 elections.

In 1993, Bhutto again became prime minister. 

In Nov., 1996, though, her government was again dismissed. Zadari was accused of murdering Bhutto's brother, a political rival, as well as of accepting kickbacks, and was imprisoned; sweeping corruption charges were brought against Bhutto. In 1999, Bhutto and Zadari were both convicted of corruption.

In Oct., 2007 ppp was elected for election, but unfortunately on 27 december the lady of pakistan benazir bhutto was died in bomb blast in her rally.