Its all about sharing...

Why we often wait for others to do something good to us? I often come across the people who expect too much from others, they think only others have responsibility to make a difference. They wait for an angel who would bring happiness. But nobody will ever come up to share happiness until or unless we ourselves don’t want to step head.

To make somebody happy is not difficult; our simple words can worthwhile for someone. There are some words which can deepen and enrich every relationship.

• Say Thank you. Give the expression of gratitude. Admire whatever is given to you by others. Let them know you like to have their respect. Think about parents who have been taking care of us since birth and ask yourself how many times have you thanked them? Go over and show your love toward them, thank them. You will gradually feel happiness when you see them happy. Above all, thank Allah for whatever you have.
• Say 'I am sorry'. Don’t feel ashamed to apologize. Come clean to everyone. Forgiveness and confessions are the act of strong people. Someone truly said: “strong people also commit mistakes as weak people. The only difference is strong people admit mistakes, but the weaker ones look for excuses”.
• Help others. Move forward to help people, even for strangers. More you help others, more pleasure you will get. Let them realize that you will always be there for any favor. Your little good deed could win thousand hearts.
• Appreciate others. If you see anyone did something good, never hesitate to appreciate. Understand them and value them. Never feel jealous over someone’s success, it will never let you feel contented. Encourage and appreciate their success.

Once you decide to give happiness, you will definitely going to achieve it. Nobody knows how long we will live, how much time is left. So consume your precious time at your best, do something good, make a difference in someone’s life so the people would remember you in good words. SHARE HAPPINESS. Start sharing with simple words and see the power of these little words. SHARE IT, FEEL IT.

Ashfaaq Ahmed has truly said:

“Sukoon, khushi aur Izzat; baantnay se milti hai”

BEAUTY LIES WITHIN..

         

 Every night ,when I lay on my bed, many thoughts blanket to scrambled my mind, some makes me gloomy ,some makes me blissful, some makes my heart plummeting into the darkness i.e. the darkness of my room, this darkness is actually the burden on everybody’s heart due to many reasons..

          When thinking about many things, I came on the point that lots of people judge others by their looks and behavior. But why does this happen? More often than not, people who do not look so good do not get the same treatment people with good looks get. What mistake have they done if they don’t look so good? It’s Allah who makes people and not men themselves.

         In any case .looks doesn’t matter. It is ones individuality that matters. Then why do people act as if those who don’t look are not welcome anywhere? Why do they discriminate these people on the basis of looks? They have no right to do so! We should always realize that we shouldn’t base our opinions on the physical appearance of a person.

          We should always look at beauty within. Everybody is unique and has the sweet heart! We just need to explore that! And it’s better to have a friend who is beautiful inside rather than having someone who looks good externally, but is not sincere. And a good friend is worth more than any amount of riches. As Ralph Waldo Emerson said:

A FRIEND MAY WELL BE RECKNOED THE MASTERPIECE OF NATURE.

       
        We should learn never to hurt other people’s feeling by saying anything about their looks. We should just go up to any person not looking at his or her face, but by looking at their eyes and heart. And I guarantee you that it’ll do you better than you hoped for. You will be rewarded for that in life and beyond…

And if you think you are not beautiful, just think of yourself. You are beautiful.

EVERYTHING HAS BEAUTY, BUT NOT EVERYONE SEES IT!

WHY? BECAUSE,

"BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER”

MAYA KHAN A DRAMA QUEEN OR A TRUE NATION LOVER?????

Maya khan was a famous anchor and hosting a morning show in a private channel. Few days before she was criticizing on her morning show for doing show on dating and raids on different parks at college or university timings. Most of the concerned authorities thought that she did not have the any right to interfere in the personal life of others. She appeared in a talk show where she apologized for her actions but according to her she was doing a right work for conveying the message to the society. In that talk show she also revealed that the actors in her show were paid and they were just acting. Following are the views of the blog members related to that talk show and also about her morning show.

(Huma Tariq)

When the show started I thought that her excuses and cry was nothing but a foolery to misguide us. No doubt what she did was totally wrong and against the laws of ethics. But as the talk show moved on, I thought that she was really in pain. She did such thing to give the message. The way she gave the message was also wrong. Because of her such mistake, she had been disgraced from that day on. In my opinion, everything is out now, so media should leave her now. Maya khan also has done several good works before. This is affecting her family life so

(Anum Akhter)

I think that interview of Maya khan was fake itself. It was a preplanned show by Maya khan to overcome her mistakes and to get interlinked with media and people. She does not what that we forgot her and that issue which is becoming a hot topic in every channel. She wants to show us that she is feeling guilty on her mistakes. It was her trick to come back in media and to stay famous among society.

(Anum Naeem)

In my opinion, although she violets media ethics but people should not make fun of her. At last she is also a women and our society must have some norms and values for the women when we say about women rights, protection etc. we must keep in mind that humans are not angel, we should forgive her. On the contrary, it is also possible that those are not paid actors; she made them to protect herself. But we should not make any opinion against or in favor of her until we have enough knowledge about the case. We should not criticize someone when our self are not clear.

(MINAL MOHSIN)

According to my point of view in this talk show she was totally securing herself. In my opinion it is a fake program because she had made a mistake. She has no right to interfere in the personal life of the citizens. She breaks the rule of media ethics. In reality, they are not paid actors but she made them to protect herself.

(ASMA SALAHUDDIN)

According to me Maya khan what ever done in the past is not acceptable but it is forgivable. She has no right to do interfering in someone’s life but according to her in a talk show she revealed that they were paid actors then she should give the caption before on airing the program. The issues highlighted in her program were real but it does not mean to hurt someone’s feeling and all the characters of this program are supposed or paid actors.

(RIMSHA JAWAID)

I thought that Maya khan’s last episode is totally fake. It was just a drama. Maya khan does not have any right to interfere in the civilian’s life. After watching that show my opinion is that those people were not actors. She named them as actors for herself security n agreed them to participate in the program. She does not think before the show that she moves against the rule of media ethics. Then why she is not facing the questions that are rising on her. If she is right then she does not need any evidence.

(HIRA KHAN)

According to my opinion, before criticizing on her I must criticize on the channel or the concerned authorities who approved her morning show just to reach the high level of rating. PEMRA must have to take measures for the solution of this issue. I think that she had done a mistake but the channel is more responsible for it because she was working under their direction. And besides highlighting this issue there are several other issues which needs attention in the society.

VALUE OF ELECTRICITY IN OUR LIFES........

 

Last night i was working on an assignment at my computer suddenly the power went off  and i did not save it and i loss all my data for which i was working for last three weeks . I was totally depressed at that time by then i realized the value of electricity . Electricity is becoming a necessity  because we are not able to do anything without electricity . Each and every department of our country is depepted on electricity on the other hand due tothe storage of electricity , our country is facing so many many problems related to finance. For all household purposes electricity is essential, but unfortunately we have to bear the pain only.

Electricity takes a valuable part in our life. People said that “ pehle bhe tou bijli nai jati thi tab bhi tou kaam hote thay.”  It is well said but now we are used to it so we can not get rid of this. Electricity makes our lives more easier all machines needs electricity to run but the storage of electricity is incresing day by day which also increases the hours of loadshedding. People are depressed because today the most major problem of our country “light hoti nai hai aur bill itne ajate hain”.

The government must take several  steps to solve this issue a person can lead a peaceful and happy life.

BEGGING A PROFESSION OR A COMPULSION???????

Last Thursday, I was sitting with my mother in the car outside the bakery; my father was inside the bakery buying something. We were waiting for him. Suddenly a woman wearing an “ABAYA” with hijab having a purse in her hand, she knocked the window when I opened the window she said to me “BAJI ALLAH K NAAM PER DE DO MAIN BOHAT ZARURAT MAND HUN MERI MADAD KARO.” I was about to answer her unexpectedly a mobile phone rang I checked my cell phone but it was not ringing then the lady who was standing outside the car put out her cell phone and receive the call. I was shocked after watching it that she is having a branded cell phone even better than me and she was begging. It was really strange for me by then I was thinking that is begging a profession or a compulsion??????

Beggars are familiar faces in Pakistan. But nowadays the situation is becoming worst day by day. Now you are not able to judge that who is needy or needs charity in our society because people are adopting begging as a profession…. Those people who are able to earn their livelihood by themselves are now totally dependent on the labor of others and they considered it the easiest way for earning money.

Begging is now becoming a common trend among the children, men and women. We usually find teams of beggars near the mosques, traffic signals, shrines etc. on the other side a true beggar blindly relies on Allah who is the sustainer and supporter for all. There often repeated slogans are “KHUDA K NAAM PER DE DO, KHUDA TUMHARA BHALA KARAY, JO DE USKA BHI BHALA JOU NA DE USKA BHI BHALA….” Some beggars do not simply want to work and lake to begging. Beggars feel begging more easiest way of work rather than to do hard work.

Moreover, the people who deserve ZAKAT or charity deprived by that money and the fake beggars got that money and enjoying the life. Last but not the least certain measures must be taken by the concerned authorities must be taken to get rid of these people from our society…

My Walk Of Life

Exhausted by wild winds, but I am walking. Feeling drained. I am in search of something I’d been longing for and I don’t know if I will achieve. But I am accustomed to walking. The uneasiness is growing strong, the screeching noise of the winds is so impenetrable that I think I turned deaf. The wind is blowing so hard, so oppressive that it is preventing me from moving toward my destination but I am not paying heeds to anything and never stop walking.

The puzzlement doesn't allow me to see clearly around me but I sensed that I am surrounded by something torturing, something unpleasant. I am trying to discover a way to get rid of them but failed.

Numbed with pain, I search for someone to walk ahead with, but nobody surrounds me except the unpleasant and absurd things. I continue my walk alone. Now realizing, in fact I m not alone. My loneliness befriended me since I started my walk. And it will be with me till the end. Again I gird up my lions to move forward because the path is so long, so far reaching. But I don’t know the end, I don’t know what is coming down the road, what is lying ahead and whether I will reach there or not. But it is my hope and faith as my strength.

A walk of life… a lot of melancholy and absurdities to endure, a lot of criticism to suffer, no matter how hard we try to get rid of it. But I know what I have is second to none. I have HOPE, FAITH and ENTHUSIASM to fulfill my dreams. 

"I am not born to give up, I am born to live my dreams"

Rewinding Memories of School Days. . .

School life is a golden time period of my life as in everyone's life. here i share fond memories of my school days. as i enjoyed alot in school days how ? i tell you. once upon a time when i was in class 6 one of  my teacher who taught sindhi taking her period during her period one of my class mate was feeling not bad and she was sitting beside me so my whole attention was there and not listening what she was studying to us. during her lecture she called me n said to call "mazia" from class ix. i was staring to her what she said, she was in a hurry not to listen what i asked to her because i asked her again to whom i call she said mazia but i heard masi :P i thought may be my friend not felling well so that she was calling to take her from the class. i checked all the classes but i didn't find masi there. after that i went to the ground floor and said to reception teacher to call masi  and going back to the class where teacher was waiting me. teacher asked where is she ? i said: coming. after 5 mins masi come to the class and said to teacher "kyu bulaya hai" ?
teacher looked at me and asked what is this ? before i said anything to her masi said kia masla hai akhir? teacher gave relief to her and said go from here now as she was very stricted at that time after that she took my class that i called mazia where is she ? i was amazed after listening the name of mazia i said in a innocent way that who mazia ? you called masi naa here she is :P :D haha she gave tough looks to me and scolded me badly :(  my all the class mates were laughing at that time. now i am not a school kid i am a student of Jinnah University but whenever me and my friends do get together must remembering these olden golden days of our lives.we had a great great time in school if i have a button of rewind than i definitely rewind my school days :)