GUNNAH ASAN SHARIYAT MUSHKIL:

Humari modern society mai ye trend bngaya hai k humaray lyea gunnah krna tub ht asan hogaya hai mgr shariyat pr chalna bht mushkil or is mai sirif ik lrki ya lrkay ki ghalti nai hoti bulkay parents b brabr k shareek hotay hain or majority parents tu is bat ko b nai smj patay k wo apney bachon ko ik ghalat kam ki ijazat khud detay hain or khud hi usko religious values pura krne se rukhtay hain.

Wesay tu iski bht si examples hain magr abi kuch hi din pehlay menay notice jo chez ki wo ye thi k ik larka or lrki ghr main bagair inform kiyea bahir ghomtay phirtay rahain tu us main ghr walon ko koi ehtiraz nai hota ku k ye bat ghr walon ki knowledge mai hoti hi nai or agr ghalti se b ksi lrkay ya lrki ne ghr main btanay ki himat kr b li or shadi ki bat krna b chahi tug hr main tofan khara hojata hai .Amiyan apni starplus ki kahaniyan ya wesai dialogue shru krdeti hain or papa ye kehtay hain k tumhey hamari izat ka khayal nai aya,or agr lrka hotu ye k tumhari prhai,tumari gari,tumhara bangla in sub chezon k bagair tum kesay krsktay ho shadi even k engagement tk nai.

Arey bai akhir ku nai,nikah ya shadi mai apni pasand ka izhar krna hr lrkay or lrki ka sharai huq hai jiski khwahish agr wo zahir krdain tu wo besharam hain or dosri taraf koi ghalat kam krtay phiren tu wo bht acha beta ya beti hai ku k ma bap k samne tu acha image bana wa hai na pechay chahay bchay jo b krtay phiren.

Aj k dor ka hr insan itna materialistic ho chukka hai k usnay apnay lyea or apne sath rehnay walay logon k lyea gunnah or jhoot ko tu bht asan bnadia hai mgr shariyat or legal tarekay ko bht mushkil or ik na mumkin kam…

EXAMPLE IS BETTER THAN INSTRUCTION

Last night I was reading a magazine in that I found the above line “EXAMPLE IS BETTER THAN INSTRUCTION” I was really impressed by reading that line and I decided to write a blog on it. It is really very true that saying and doing are two different things. It is easy to say something, but it is difficult to perform it. For performing a task and to give something a practical shape, a person needs will power, courage and continuous efforts. I am also in the favor of this concept. While I was writing the blog on this subject some usual examples arrived in my mind like I saw many fathers instruct their children not to smoke but they are their self are chain smokers. So a child cannot give up smoking until his father himself sets an example. Similarly mostly parents want their children would offer prayer five times daily but if the parents are not offering prayers so the instruction for the children is useless. The common habit of lying in us is just because the parents’ only precept the children not to lie but they are also lying on the same time so why they expect that their children will not do that thing. It is necessary to set an example which is better than precept.

The saying “example is better than instruction” is more true about the government. If the government is itself corrupt, it cannot expect the people to good and honest. It is said that “JAISI GOVERNMENT WAISE LOUG.” If the government does wrong deeds in the society, it loses respect and confidence of the people. This is what happening in our country. Practical demonstration always helps in understanding everything that is being given.

Moreover, laws are made in our country and are good in books. But they are made for the good of us. But they have no values if they are not followed so practical example is necessary at each and every level. We should always follow the golden rule that “DO WHAT YOU PREACH.” If we project good manners so it has good influence on others and if we project something bad so we lose our respect and it will leave negative impression on others. At last I believe in this sentence that “MAN LIVES IN DEEDS NOT IN WORDS.”

HOW CAN PAKISTAN BECOME A STRONG NATION.....................

HOW CAN PAKISTAN BECOME A STRONG NATION

In the modern world,the world goes to him,who is the fittest and the most tactful. For our survival as an independent nation, it is essential to build it on modern lines.

New incentives should be given to the farmers. They play the key role in the economy of our country. There are many defects in our system of education. It is examination ridden. The need for technical education is very great . our country is on the way to industrialization. It is therefore, necessary that there should be a shift of emphasis in our education. More and more people should get technical education. It is one of the way to Pakistan become a strong nation.  

In order to make Pakistan a strong nation we should strictly adhere to the principles of Islam. Islam is a source of strength and unity. We should re-model our lives political,social,moral and economical according to the teachings of Islam We should not forget that Pakistan was created be cause the Muslims wanted to put the Islamic ideals into practice.


 Today,the whole nation stands united and has respond its confidence in the hands of people’s government. We have to see whether the new government upholds this confidence in the spirit of a mission.

load shedding is a blessing....

I know what is running in your mind. The title seems stupid right??? Ok... let me explain you. Every one of you will totally agree with me in the end. Yesterday I was in my gallery with my family when lights were out. I was having a walk as I had nothing else to do in dark. What a peaceful environment that was. Cool breeze blowing and no noise were around. It was very calm and relaxing. I noticed some other neighbors were also walking in their gallery. Some were talking and having tea with family. Well, I was very tired and waiting for the electricity so that I could start my assignment as I was running out of time to complete my project. But suddenly, I felt bliss. I started to enjoy the environment. How healthy and relaxing load shedding is, I have never think it before.

Very first, I hardly get time to walk but thanks to the load shedding, it gives me chance to pick a lot of time to walk. It helps to keep my health fit. In addition to this, it gives us chance to spend our little time with family and a moment to relax.

Secondly and perhaps most important blessing, it gives us opportunity to get rid of studies. With this blessing, I can luckily get chance to get away from horrible assignments and we come out with an excuse "sorry ma'am assignment is not ready... light he nahi thi poora din". What an excuse I would seek if there were no load shedding??? Loads of thank to our energy crises.

Moreover, the other thing I learnt is; punctuality. No matter where Pakistanis are punctual or not, they never forget to turn our lights off. And not a single day has passed when they forget to perform this very sincere duty. Light goes everyday on their promised timings. This is how sincere people do their jobs.

Now let’s think about the electronic appliances, even they got chance to relax a little bit. Think about the T.V that nonstop telecast horrible news of terrorism and terrible and pathetic saas bahu dramas. I feel big relief when T.V stops bashing.

And at last when I see electricity bill in my hand (which is 6000 minimum), I feel pleasure. A lot of benefit in just Rs. 6000/=??? After all, anything which is giving such learning and relief, deserve more than that. I would ready to pay the double. In fact we are lucky to have such energy crises which make SO MUCH difference in our lives and I hope the same for the rest of the years of Pakistan.

I am sure you are going to break your UPS and generators after reading this. Understand and value this blessing. Keep on Pakistanis….. GHUT GHUT KAY GEO….!!!!

Is youth our strength ?

With the arrival of 2012, we have experienced hospital twice. First in January, my father got heart attack and recently in March, my mother had operation of gall bladder. Both are recovering very well MASHALLAH.

Both the times we experienced a lot.  So many things I see in hospital and God forbid everyone from any situation which brings them into hospital. I stayed two days and nights there with my mother. I used to wake up all the night, sometimes I walked in the corridor while my mother was asleep. The HDU ward was right outside. I sometimes peeped into the HDU and other wards. Patients fitted with number of pipes and wires, my heart squeezed whenever I saw them.

As I stayed, one thing I noticed was extremely disappointing. Almost 70% of the patients were young, fighting between life and death. In the morning most of them were walking in the corridor while my mother noticed the same. Except an old woman, all of them were young in their twenties and thirties, accompanied with one of their parents who were helping them holding their pipes. God knows from how many diseases they were suffering from. The most distressing moment was when my father was in heart hospital, I saw two boys (who were in their early thirties) died of heart attack. I was wondering why the youngsters are in so much trouble.

Now look at the reasons, how many of us walk daily? I am sure nobody. Even when we want to go to the nearby market we prefer to go by bikes and cars but never bother to go by walk. If we ponder over our diet, what we would like to eat all the time is totally impure. How many us want to eat loki, kaddu, began, bhindi etc.? Very few. Our demands are mostly burgers, pizzas, tikkas, and every type of fried and spicy things without adding to consider about its nutritional facts. In schools, offices, university and offices, some people feel ashamed to bring homemade food with them and very happily eat poisonous food daily. We love to have soft drinks instead of having 8 glass of water daily.

Even if we think to eat simple meat and vegetable, they are grown in the polluted water. Moreover, the fertilizers used in plants are mixed with urea and other chemicals. When talk about animals, they are fed artificial foods.

Moreover, smoking is becoming a fashion, especially among young boys which is inviting more diseases. Even those who don’t smoke cigarette, smoke passively. The increasing pollution doesn’t allow us to inhale pure oxygen. Now let’s talk about our routine which has high impact on our health. How many of us used to sleep early and wake up early? This is perhaps hard thing to do. I call it the part of fashion, people love to spent time on phones, internet and listening to FM late nights. Our health is very much depend upon our routine i.e., our sleeping timings, dinner time, lunch time etc.

Youth is said to be the strength of nation. But very unluckily, our strength is going weak. What would be the condition of a nation if its youth were not healthy? May ALLAH protect us from every disease and make our youth and nation strong. Amen.

Dancing Commercials

Few hours back i was watching a news bulletin with my family where news caster says will be right back after a short commercial break, my mind reminds me the rally of dance , singing and vulgarity in their short break making me immediately feel to switch the channel because i was not in mood to stay tuned that channel where i saw a cultural show.

 

                              Advertising we all know is a way of communication to encourage their consumers to buy a product but i fail to understand that how a tea milk product can be sold with dancing and singing with overweight lahenga's, ? a number of examples are there including pakola tea milk, tarang, good milk from where i can learn dancing steps  and what about the product ? i have never ever seen clearly. 

                                       

                             Biscuits ads where we see lot of peoples are dancing and singing not behind the scenes having/ eating biscuits and love to do dancing while eating biscuits ? i have never ever seen people do this. 

                                    

                                   

                              Mobile phones ads where ladies were dancing while talking on phones :o these are Pakistani commercials ? are these commercials presenting our culture , norms and values ? or is this a demand of brand so that consumers can buy ? 

                                      

                              Is singing and dancing necessarily in commercials? or it means to grip on people to make them go and buy brands ?

                                 

                             TV ads is a source of communication and entertainment but it does not mean to sell dancing , singing and nudity a lot of ads made by agencies only for public demand. all we can see veet ads and all hair removing ads, tarang and biscuits ads tea ads are on airing on TV channels day and night even in the news bulletin :s. 

                                

                             i know music can fulfil the advertisements but choreographed singing and dancing to sell a product is sounds so awkward we have seen in past decades where products sold without any nudity and dancing. 

                  These ads should be ban in pakistan because as an islamic nation it does not suits us to sell product through this we can easily says that indian culture is dominating on our societies and peoples love to watch it because they idealized indian dramas. 

OVERCONFIDENT PEOPLE:

    Recently I have met some people who are overconfident about their personality. They make their own rules are followed and they think that they are the utmost intelligent personalities of the world and people are appreciating them. Why they don’t think that majority of human being love to give compliments in front of an individual and make fun of them behind them.

    To believe on you is a good thing but to over believe on yourself is not that good as some people think. I never understand that why people become rude when anyone say that they are overconfident and it can harm them.

    These types of people should understand that they are human beings and they can never be so perfect in their decisions or in giving opinion about anything. They should understand that they also have negative and positive aspects in their personalities. They are not always as true as they think about their selves.

    So those people who are having this obsession should discontinue this before they will fall down and will break their own personality and image just because of their meaningless confidence.